My Life My Choice

What Do I Do, When I Can’t Do What I Know I Must Do? The greatest struggle that people experience is going with the grain instead of against it. How many of you struggle on a daily bases knowing what you need to do, yet feel like you are being emotionally pulled in a different direction? If what you need to do is based in fact...fact being something that is unchangeable...no matter your emotional or fictitious state, fact will always be in your peripheral vision. Or put another way, it, what you need to do will always be in the forefront of your mind.  So how do you deal with this when it happens in your life?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what you can do to support yourself during these times.

There is a right way to pray and a wrong way to pray.  Affirmations, much like prayers have a right and wrong approach too.  Praying and affirming both use the power of your spoken word, along with intention and attention for a desired out come.  When it doesn’t happen or turnout the way in which you wanted you’re left wondering, “What happen?  Why didn’t God help me?  Why didn’t the Universe manifest what I wanted?”  You’ve been told that all you have to do is pray and ask for what you want or affirm what you want hundreds of times a day and you’ll get it. WRONG! WRONG!! WRONG!!!  If it were that simple your life would be exactly the way in which you want it.  Yet, ironically it is as simple as that when done the right way. Click here to download your free PDF Worksheet outlining how to affirm and pray to get the results you want. https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/files/ Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look a

The most powerful tool you will ever have in life is your ability to choose for self in the best interest of self.  Choice is the first of the Universal Laws and without it you have nothing.  Everything that you have experience in life is a result of a choice you’ve made.  This statement doesn’t condone negative and or harmful actions perpetrated against you and yours. Rather is sets the premise for empowerment through ownership, accountability and responsibility.  Today’s show is taking another look at the first brick in the Universal Laws of Attraction and consciously creating your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the power of your personal choice.  

The word love is generally used to describe a myriad of deep feelings that you have for people, places and things.  Because you are unique your definition and my definition of love and all its feelings will differ.  And rightly so, yet still, when you say that you love me or this book or that dish, I know what you mean, simply because I will use my standard or definition of love to define what your meaning is.  Ironically, using your standard to define my meaning of what love is has been the demise of many relationships. And will continue to do so until we redefine the meaning of love. Beyond the norm that we know to be associated with the word love it is actually an immutable Universal Law whose definition is all about transmutation or “movement of change.” The Universal Law of Love isn’t about the warm and fuzzies or the cold and frigid, it’s all about supporting change.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at Love in all its glory.

Forgiveness isn’t just about being and saying sorry or an act of contrition or consciously acknowledging what you may or may not have done wrong or been wronged.  Forgiveness has way more value in our lives than a simple contritious act of being sorry.  It is far more reaching than that.  All religious, spiritual and metaphysical doctrines speak, teach and preach at length about forgiveness.  What isn’t said is that forgiveness frees up mental, emotional and physical real estate so we can use that space to create what we want in our lives.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the far reaching effects forgiveness has on our lives.

This question, “do my thoughts become physical things?” is a dilemma that many people face and ponder.  People associate things that happen in their life with being unlucky or lucky, hit or miss or the right or wrong timing, even being in the right or wrong place at the right or wrong time.  Yet life and living is more organized than that.  Mystics and teachers throughout the ages have taught the philosophy behind Universal Law or spiritual law of manifesting .  From secret organizations to the world of the internet we’ve been told that thoughts, your thoughts can and will become physical things. This concept on the surface appears to be difficult for people to embrace, yet we do this all the time.  The reality you are currently living in started out as a thought that you had, whether you choose to believe this or not, it’s a Universal Law. Consciously change your thoughts and you change the world you live in. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist

It has been said opposites attract.  Perhaps this is because nature is always trying to restore balance.  The Universal Law of Opposites isn’t about opposing forces or even opposition.  This Law clearly defines options available to us and supports our greater understanding for the need for “opposing” contrast in our lives. Maybe opposites do attract, however, the Universal Law of Opposites is all about supporting you in using the Law to attract what you want for your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach an artist and we explore the Law of Opposites and what that can mean for your life.

Truth: The Affects And Role It Plays In Our Lives Truth is permissive and is the foundation on which your life is built.  So much hinges on this five letter word.  TRUTH! Yet for many of you speaking your truth is difficult and as a result your life is extremely complicated or at the very least filled with lots of wishes that this or that did or didn’t happen.  The Law of Truth like all other Universal or Spiritual Laws is resolute.  It plays a pivotal role in how we manifest all things in our lives.  Speaking your truth isn’t just about you.  Your truth has a domino effect impacting everyone who you come in contact with. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Truth how it impacts our lives.

Every day, every minute every second you are living out your life based on the twenty-six letters of the alphabet that you string together to formulate your word.  Each word you create brings conscious meaning and understanding to your thoughts.  Your words are used to communicate this understanding and are sent forth, to bring into manifestation that which you have asked for.  You are bonded to each vowel each consonant and to every syllable, for the words that you speak, write and think are what creates your life.  All spiritual text supports this, the power of your word to create and yet most have little understanding of that power and how it impacts lives.  Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist and we look at words and the power they have over you

In the instantaneous world you now live in, you have lost the art of Patience.  The Universal Law of Patience allows things to manifest or unfold in a time frame that is conducive to success and the highest good for all concerned.  It prevents things from transpiring in a way that skips small steps which undermine the goal or your desired manifestation.  The Universal Law of Patience provides you with the unique opportunity to experience and get to know “self” in a way that can only add to the cache of who you are.  It creates the space in which you can and will grow. Patience allows you to see you manifestation unfold before your eyes and make changes where change needs to be made.  Is it important to consciously invoke the Universal Law of Patience?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the need for patience in our lives.

Why Is Knowing what to do and doing it are totally different things.  Daily, millions of people struggle with this issue.  And their struggle is real.  And as a result of these mental and emotional phenomena, we wind up not experiencing and or getting the most out of life. What does this mean; better yet can this type of behavior be changed? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at “knowing it vs. doing it.” 

Asking the wrong questions will always get the wrong answers and in creating the life that you are wanting to manifest.  “How Do I” is totally the wrong question to ask self.  Asking how, when you are consciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction to manifest things into your life, taps into your past experiences, which have little bearing on the outcome.  Why? Because you don’t know the whole story!  And that fact alone means you need a different type of internal manifesting dialog. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the self talk necessary to get you to your next level.

There is a saying that states “your family can be a blessing or a curse!” Is there a difference between your biological family and your spiritual family?  In essence, the answer to that is no, there isn’t.  Yet, how each individual shows up in your life and the functions that they have agreed to perform are very, very different.  The indoctrinated ideals, along with the do’s and don’ts that you have been taught regarding our traditional biological family, if not understood has the potential to undermine your life. Both biological and spiritual members of your family play a key and powerful role in influencing your decision making process as well as holding sacred space for you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we take a look at family and what that means.

Things that have happen in your life are called seasons, whether they are deemed failures or successes.  Each event or situation, each success or each failure is a season that has a divine purpose or a divine reason.  Where you find yourself now, today, this minute or where you have been, is all about you, God, the Universe and “show and tell.”  Your seasons are showing you and telling you what your options for creativity are.  These options are found within two opposite poles i.e. hot and cold.  This is the Universal Law of polarity who’s divine purpose is to present you with contrasts and parallels in the form of duality.  It is within this framework of polarity and the nature of the Universal Law of Duality, which addresses your emotions, so that you will find what you need to support you in making your choices.   Ecclesiastes 3:1 eloquently states “To everything there is a season, and a time, to every purpose under the heaven. A time to be born, and a time to die.”  It’s what you do in between that count

We all have a story to tell!  And your life story is created from what has happened in your life, or as I like to say “for” your life, coupled with what you think is going to happen to you.  Your life story is center around who you were and who you are evolving to be.  It’s all about the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the joys and pains.  Many of people choose to allow the pain associated with their stories to paralyzed them or at the very least cripple them emotionally, mentally and physically.  You will always have an ace in the hole; a spirit that refuses to be crushed to death and be buried. Your spirit is indomitable! And this gives you an opportunity to use your personal story to enhance your life and to create it the way in which you want. You will always have the ability to invoke the Universal Law of Rebound. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the ways to use your story to your fullest advantage.

The biggest part of getting what you want and manifesting it in life is knowing what you want for your life. What ending are you wanting to see?  Having this kind of clarity can really cause havoc in your life and send us spiraling in all directions.  Why?  Because more often than not we feel that we don’t know what we are wanting and as a result there is a feeling of paralysis when making a choice…should I stay or should I go? “Agh! I don’t know what to do?”  However that’s not true.  You, me, we do know what we want and we do know what we need to do. Actually, know everything that we want and everything that we don’t want. It sometimes takes a little time sorting it out.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the push and pull of making choices

Can you keep your secret? Can you?  And Do you? There is a Universal Law of Secrecy that when invoked acts as a contingency plan to your manifestation happening and or happening in a smooth way.  Secrecy, in regard to manifesting goes beyond not telling what you are doing or being private.   It means “to be done without others having knowledge of it.”  This doesn’t means someone saying to you “I knew something was up…I just didn’t know what!”  It’s more like when your spouse of significant other blindsides you and calmly states, “I want out.  And I am leaving!   Whoa!  That came out of nowhere.  When did you decide to do this?”  And the response is “I’ve been thinking about this for the last year!” Now that’s a secret! Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at secrecy you and the Laws of Attraction.

Money!  You may associate the lack of money with poverty or living a lifestyle that you don’t want.  Poverty or being broke as a joke is a state of mind that has manifested.  By the time you are aware that you are in dire financial straits, it’s already too late.  Lack of money is the effect of the cause…it’s not the cause of the effect or lack... your thinking is.  The Laws of Attraction don’t work.  If you could do one thing, that doesn’t require you to do anything illegal or morally wrong, to change your finances to get “them” where you want “them” to be, would you do it?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we talk about what you can do to change your financial status.

“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:” Proverbs 23:7.  Biblical quotes, spiritual texts, religious doctrines, ol’ wives adages along with the new thought, metaphysical and spiritual communities state clearly “if you think it, you will manifest it!”  This is one of the foundational cornerstones taught within the Laws of Attraction.  The Secret by Rhonda Byrne and many other books published on using the Laws of Attraction are heavily based on this thought process.  So is it possible to prepare a contingency plan for something catastrophic without making it a reality?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we turn this belief on it head, inside out and upside down.

The Universal Law of Flexibility is exactly what the word means: capable of bending or being bent without breaking; this is flexibility. This law is about you choosing to be adaptable within your current situation.  It’s about finding the courage within you to move through your situation without resistance.  Flexibility allows you to find your unique foot and finger hold so you can push and pull yourself up.  Flexibility is choosing to consciously change your view finder lens and look at your life from a different perspective.  This law speaks to you about your willingness to change and authentically try something different.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how flexibility impacts your life and what it can do for you.