My Life My Choice

In today’s show called the potpourri of life, we are using the Universal Law of Divine Flow to guide us and be in the moment.  We’ll be talking about choices, energy, addictions, holistic healing, health, medication, entrepreneurism, nutrition, meditation and how this all rolls into the Laws of Attraction In Action and what that can mean for you. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the potpourri of life.     

Intuition:  Accurate insight and knowledge attained from sources unknown.  We all have access to our intuition, which means that we all have insight, accurate insight on the best choices to make for any given life situation. However, based on the fact that we as humans, tend to be afraid of the unknown, or we dislike being uncomfortable, we err on the side of caution and go with what we know or what feels good.  More often than not, this doesn’t serve our purpose well.  And in consciously using the Laws of Attraction, ignoring your intuitive directives will create a setback with our manifestation.  Can you get passed your fears and can you train yourself to use your intuition?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore those two questions

Far too often in our lives, in spite of doing “the work needed,” the things that we want to manifest, don’t.  For all intent and outward purposes we are doing all the right things.  Affirming and or praying to conceptualize our vision into a habitual thought form. We are engaging our emotion via our five senses as Dr. Wendy has suggested that we do.  And yet, we get this close, to our desired manifestation that we can taste it and see the golden flecks of success in its eyes.  And then, chaos ensues and it slips away from our grasp.  With the resilience that is an intrinsic part of our ability as humans to continue to thrive, we shrug off our misadventures saying, “it wasn’t for me or it wasn’t my time or God has something better in store for me.”  I have two questions, How do you know it’s not for you or it’s not your time or that God has something better in store for you?Is your mental, emotional, physical and temporal body or house in order? Many of the things that you want to manifest CANNOT and WILL NOT

You are powerful beyond measure.  What or who has made you believe otherwise?  Failure isn’t a yardstick by which you beat yourself with.  Failure is an amazing gift.  In fact, it’s a blessing that is designed to set you upon the right pathway, for you to create the life that you are wanting to live. If you have experienced that sinking gut wrenching feeling of disempowerment and abject failure, then I’m happy to tell you that you have experience your first taste of true empowerment.  Is this paradoxical?  No! It’s factual.  It’s all in the view finder lens that you choose to cover your inner or all Seeing Eye with. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression life coach and artist as we look at stepping out of powerlessness, into your all powerful base.

We talk to God.  We pray to God.  We beseech God, rale, cry and scream at God.  We walk with God. We have other people liaise with God on our behalf.  We accept the blessings bestowed upon us by God, and readily reject that which we call accursed.   We do all of this on a daily basis and, yet, are we asking the right questions of God?  The current state of your life, your health, wealth, finances and your relationship with self and others will answer that question for you.  Talking with God isn’t something that you can learn, as in how to pray or recite an affirmation.  All that is good and has its place in our spiritual evolvement, yet, talking to God isn’t something that you learn; it’s something that you do.  It’s intrinsic or inherent to who you are. The ability to speak with God, and be heard by God is something that you came into being with.   So, are you asking the right questions of God? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we exp

Is my desire to be perfect preventing me from moving forward in my life?  Perfectionism when in control allows you to be at the top of your game by providing that razor shape edge that makes you stand above the rest.  Perfectionism when out of control is a subterfuge for fear of failure.  It’s a self imposed limiting belief.   It’s easier to set your bar to an unattainable level, that way you never have to face what people may or may not have to say about you and or your work.  You work very hard at the thing you are producing, but never ever produce a finished product.  You see, it’s always in the making, because it can always be better.  Are you using your perfectionism as a smoke screen to hide behind, or to put you at the top of your game? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at what limiting beliefs and perfectionism.

Have you ever wondered about the people in your life, especially those, who to put it mildly, you can’t abide to be around or being around them drives you to drink?  We make agreements with other souls, who are members of what is called our soul cluster and we are members of theirs.  The idea is that we’ll support each other to attain our highest soul growth, by what appears to be, any means necessary.   We are all in this dimension under a spiritual contract. And it’s a contract of choice that has been made of our choosing with the assistance of God and our celestial helpers.  This contractual agreement, we make prior to incarnating or being born into this life.  Our agreement is binding.  It’s a contract!!!!  We have created it for our soul growth, which ultimately is achieve by fulfilling our predestine life's purpose.  Our agreements are based on the mutual understanding that the relationship is ultimately about our personal and individual soul growth.  We are here for our own life/soul experiences and m

Did you know your ability to use the Laws of Attraction to manifest what you want for your life, whether consciously or unconsciously is negatively impacted when you make an excuse?  We all have used excuses for a myriad of reasons to communicate what’s going on with us.  Sometimes it’s to explain away a situation that impacted you that you had no control over; a ten car pileup on the freeway that made you late for an appointment.  You may use excuses as a way to apologize, or to ask for forgiveness, to explain something away and or as a way of justification.  The underlying energy that is prevalent in an excuse, is to justify our behavior, because, inadvertently, our action has impacted someone else negatively.   There is another side to making excuses that people don’t generally think about, yet, nonetheless they are effect in every way every day.  Your excuses are impacting your ability to manifest what you want in your life.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley express

Food The Ultimate Sacrifice And The Laws of Attraction It’s a fact, we are what we eat!  Everyone has an opinion about food, their people’s food and what it means to the global tribe they belong to.  Food is divvied up by cultural, traditional, spirituality, medicinal, geographical, regional North, South, East, West or Central properties.  Also, everyone has opinions about other people’s food and how it is prepared.  We know our personal likes and dislike along with our sensitivities.   We also know what foods will bring us the most comfort when feeling down, blue or just blah.  Our foods tend to be categorized not for the nutrients it provides, but by taste and emotional value it imparts to our lives. Lips will curl bearing incisors; hands are thrown up as if warding off an aggressor and shudders will run through our bodies, when we think about ingesting something that we really dislike.  Conversely our faces take on a blissful glow when we eat something that literally catapults us into our personal space

People struggle with believing their OWN visualizations and thoughts. People find it challenging to hold their vision make believing that what they’re wanting to attract into their lives will manifest. It’s important to understand that within the Laws of Attraction the action of "make belief" is paramount for you to manifest what you are wanting. How well do you make believe? If you take an honest look at your life and everything that is going on and has gone on, you will see how accurately you're able to make believe. This isn't about what you believe. This speaks of your inner truth; what you "BELIEVE" about what you are choosing to believe. This is where your ability to use the Universal Laws of Attraction becomes ALL powerful for you. It’s so important to understand the nuances when using the Laws of Attraction. More importantly, it’s imperative you understand how the Laws work independently of your conscious awareness. This is why you’ve found yourself saying, “How did I get here? Or I don’t believe thi

Do you hear when God speaks directly to you? Are you missing divine opportunities to create the life that you have asked for? You know that seemingly random thought that popped into your mind?  You know the one that you pooh poohed!?  Well that was your divine message.  It was God/The Universe answering your question on how you can efficiently and expediently make money, find your soul mate, get healthier, start a business, build a foundation, lose weight etc, and be of service to the world at the same time.  That was your co-created opportunity being presented to you.  And you missed it!  So, now what you gonna do? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore you, the Universal Laws of Attraction and divine messages.

What does communication mean to or for you?  Whatever it means to, or for you, it boils down to how you transmit and receive information.  Communication is key in the development of your internal and external relationships.  And you are in a relationship with everything in your world. Using the Laws of Attraction consciously or unconsciously is dependent on your ability to communicate in an effective way, what you are wanting to experience for your life.  The message or communiqué goes to the point of creation to be made manifest.  Communication is about you sharing yourself and receiving self on an energetic level. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist, as we look at communication you and the Universal Laws of Attraction.

There is always movement in the Universe, irrespective of what it might look like or feel like and or sound like, nothing is ever still. When you are asleep, or in a deep meditative stance you are always moving.  Energy is either moving into form, that’s into creation or moving out of form which is decreation.  But, whatever energy is doing it’s doing it with a balanced purpose.   The only way that creation and decreation or better yet, the manifestation of what you are wanting to come into your life can take place, is if you uphold the tenants of the Universal Law of Equipoise.   Equal energy is applied to both the creation and the decreation of things.  This Universal Law speaks to us about maintaining a balance.  We need to maintain balance for our manifestations to take place.  i.e. You can’t expect to not run into bad drivers, if you're always cussing and fussing about how incompetent people are when they get behind the wheel of their cars.  Understanding how this Law works can be the difference between

One of the biggest challenges that many of you face on a second by second, minute by minute basis is keeping your mind focused on your intention.  Your intention is what you want to manifest for your life.  However, I am painfully aware of the truth in this adage “energy flows where your attention goes.”  So, it’s imperative that you stay focused on what you're wanting to manifest for your life and not the things that have already come and gone.  And this is where the challenge lies, in finding ways to stay in alignment with the Universal Laws of Attraction, so what you are wanting to come into manifestation inadvertently isn't canceled out.  You can’t control your thoughts, but you can control how you react to them.  This is what this show is all about today, providing you with a simple workable strategy that helps you control how you react to your thoughts.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we give you insight on techniques that will sup

Some people are aware of the co-creation process.  And others have only given their ability to consciously co-create with God, nothing more than a cursory thought, and, that’s usually in hindsight or as an afterthought.  But for the vast majority of people, even those who do have a cursory understanding, this knowledge of manifesting and co-creating what they want in life, and how to use the tools they’ve been given to achieve this remains almost illusive.  Why is this?  Why is it that something so powerful, something so important to your very existence goes virtually unnoticed?  Some of this is due to traditional, cultural, societal, religious and or spiritual doctrines and practices.  And for others, it’s because of the way that life unfolds, most never see the role they play nor that of the participants involved in the manifestation process.  Many are under the impression that things just happen.    And as a result YOU are not cognizant of the power YOU have over your life and your manifestation process. 

We’ve been sold a bill of goods, which sadly most of us have bought into and the recompense has been poor health, poor life, poor me and the loss of how to heal oneself.  The price paid has been way, way, way too high.  We paid with the spiritual currency, of self.  And for the return on our investment, we lost conscious connection with self.  We’ve replaced the connection with goods that we bought.  We’ve been told to look outside of self for both the causations in our lives and the cures for our lives.  We have been told that it’s okay not to take ownership and responsibility for the state of our mind, body and our overall health. We paid for the knowledge that there is a pill or something outside of self that can fix us.   We’ve bought into the LIE, and it is a whopper, that it’s okay to assign accountability and blame to people, places and things when we find ourselves in a mental, emotional and physical and yes spiritual deficit.  The Universal Laws of Attraction are our conduits for the manifestation of

Many people use The Laws of Attraction to go on a hunt for what they want to manifest in life.  They approach the process of getting what they want like bringing down the manifestation; much like a lioness does to a gazelle on the Serengeti. With the first law in the Laws of Attraction being Choice/Freewill you get to CHOOSE how to use the Laws, and can use them in  any which way that you please.   However, it’s important to note that there is a marked difference between hunting and attracting.  While both require the expenditure of mental and physical energy, along with clarity, planning, end date, and executable and quantifiable action steps, they are as different as day is to night.  “to pursue with a single minded force or endeavor to obtain at all costs.”“to draw in with a single minded force causing approach at all costs.” Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we look at the manifestation process of hunting vs. attracting using the Universal Law

Freedom!  What does that mean to you? Is it a blessing or a curse?  The Divine Universal Creator has imbued us with Universal Law of Freedom; and it’s not a gift, but a birthright.  For each of us freedom means something different, yet, in the end it will give each of us the same thing; the power to choose how we use our spiritual and physical currency…and I’m not only referring to money.  Or put another way, freedom gives us the power to choose how we use our minds to think and the action we take to create what we want for our lives.  Choice is the embodiment of freedom and freedom is the embodiment of choice.  It’s the power to determine for self without constraints or interference from external forces.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore freedom and the role it plays in our lives. 

With 2016 kicking your door in, now would be the time to take a look at 2015 from an aerial vantage point with an objective eye.  You’re looking for your successes, wins and accomplishments, both small and large.  You’re looking at the things that didn’t pan out and what you are wanting to do with them.  You’re looking at the bad things that happened and seeing how they have impacted your life for the better.  In short you are looking at 2015 as a major stepping stone to creating what you are wanting for the 525,600 minutes of 2016.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at 2015 and how to use our experiences to support us in 2016.

Forgiveness, who benefits the most, the forgiven or the forgiver?  We have been taught a one-sided beneficent power of bestowing our forgiveness on people, places and things, whom we feel have transgressed against us in some shape or form.  For the most part we possess a seriously skewed perception of what forgiveness is and who the forgiver and forgiven is.  We have virtually no idea what occurs energetically, when with righteous indignation we withhold our forgiveness or with righteousness we bestow it.  The Universal Law of Forgiveness is resolute.   And this Law has one function and one function only.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the function of the Universal Law of Forgiveness.