My Life My Choice

Your glass can be half empty or half full.  You can wear rose colored glasses and see everything a certain way the good the bad the ugly and pretty too.  Optimism and pessimism is a personal choice by which you view your world and your life. There is nothing wrong with any of the above views, whether optimist or pessimist, it’s all good.  When it becomes a problem, or not so good, is when your view of life isn’t reflecting back to you what you want to see.  You get to choose the filter from which you view your life from.  Change your filter and you will change your life.  Choice is a Universal Law that dictates how you live your life!    Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and artist as we look at you and the power of choosing the right lens to view your life from.

Consciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction, takes consistent action.  Because we are emotional beings we can react to things that we experience in our lives in a myriad of ways.  We can be enraged, sad or hurt.  We can play the blame game, be resentful, hateful and sometimes downright mean and spiteful.  Within reason, and befitting the situation all the above feelings are normal.  What isn’t normal is our inability to let go of these emotions that become toxic to every facet of our lives. The 21 Day Forgiveness Project is all about you and learning the transformative art of forgiveness.  This will allow you to let go of emotional toxicity and move on by unlocking and or unblocking the channels that are preventing your manifestations or blessings from being realized. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as explore the 21 Day Forgiveness Project.

There is a fine line, so fine that it can be missed when it comes to God, choices and you.  Omnipotent is a word that is used to describe God or your chosen deity.  The ultimate power to know, see, do, hear, speak and be all is omnipotence.   We have been told that God knows what’s best for us and to allow God to make that happen.  And yet, we have been told to ask for what we want, believing that we have it already and we will receive it. Knock and the door will be open. We’ve been basically told that we don’t have to do anything, but just exist.  We’ve been giving disinformation, and for most people, if they are honest, they will say, life hasn’t turned out the way in which they wanted. We’ve be told, “Watch God laugh when you try to make something happen yourself.”  Ironically, there is an element of truth to this saying, but it’s not what you think.  Understanding who you are and your role in YOUR choice making process is paramount to you making the right choices for your life.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dear

This is a question that believers and non believers have asked themselves for as long as man has been in existence.  Where exactly is God? There are raging debates about the existence of God; who, what and where God is located.  And yet, we have been told categorically God is everywhere, within you, in heaven, in the Universe...in that rock or piece of carved wood, above you, below you and everywhere in between. These questions have given rise to a global trillion dollar self-help industry, and have kept the zillion dollar traditional church industry/ministries in business. From New Age to Evangelic Ministries and everything in between, including Wiccan and Paganism all claim to have the answers that people are seeking when trying to find God.  So, where do you think God is? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions Coach And Artist as we weigh in on this subject.

Stop! Enough!  No More Self-help Books, Webinars, Seminars Or Retreats Get off this self imposed merry-go-round to nowhere. How many more self-help books are you going to read?  How many more webinars and seminars are you going to listen to?  How many more retreats are you going to attend?  How much more advice are you going to seek before you take conscious and decisive action on what you want for your life?  Being a perpetual student of spirituality is a wonderful thing.  Consciously gathering knowledge filled with its latent power is a must, yet how much knowledge is needed before you take action?  You see, knowledge without action is just knowledge.  Taking right action on the spiritual knowledge you have acquired is a transformative thing.  Not only does the knowledge become a powerful force, supporting your forward momentum, it creates the invisible Universal dynamics needed for transformational change in your life.  If you are looking for a way to transform your life, then take action by using the kno

When things go wrong in life, as they are apt to do, people naturally experience setbacks.  Sometimes this setback literally means that they hit rock bottom.  Sometimes the rug is pulled from under them and other times it feels like they have been rended in two.  If you have experienced you very own personal setback and hit bottom or have been rended in two, it doesn’t mean that you are broken, damaged and or in need of fixing.  What it might mean for you is an opportunity to choose a new and  fresh start with an excellent foundation to build upon. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what we can do when things go wrong in our lives and we’ve been torn in two.

Is what you are doing in life your passion?  Or is what you’re doing how you make money? The distinction between the two is important. There is a huge difference between the two.  And I can hear you asking, “But, can’t it be both?”  Actually, no, it can’t.  Many would disagree and disagree venomously, yet the Universal Law of Space clearly states that no two things can occupy the same space”at the same time.”  Many people have missed out on living their dream life because they have chosen not to pursue their passion.  “Get a real job,” they say. ”And do your passion on the side, you know, because artists starve and people of that ilk live a hand to mouth existence.”  So, where does that leave you in your understanding of what’s at stake and wanting to pursue your passion? To learn more about the Laws of Attraction and what action you can take in your life visit The Laws of Attraction In Action Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Intrinsic Expression Coach and Ar

If you have ever created a vision board or used conscious visualization to support you in manifesting what you want or if you are just curious about the process then this show is for you. Seeing is believing!  And while that may smack of being a little ambiguous, seeing truly is believing.  But not in the sense that in order to believe in something you must first see it in its tangible form.  The ability to see something before it comes into physical form start way before.  It begins with The Art of Visualization.  Many people use only a portion of the Universal Law of Visualization and as a result experience challenges with getting what they want in life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at visualization, the Universal Law and you.  

Are you struggling to move forward and attain your desired goals?  Health, wealth, love, career, business, money etc?  Well you are not alone. Millions of people are experiencing the same struggle as you.  In todays show we will be discussing the importance of the right “self talk” and give you three implementable solutions that can help you get your life on track.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore three ways of getting your life on track. #attractioners #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #choices #Entrepreneur

What action are you taking in your life that is creating the things that you want to manifest?  And is the action you are taking, the right action?  You see, if you don’t take the right action you will not experience your desired results.  Most people miss this nuance and as a result or reaction for missing this step they never seem to manifest what they desire.                                          James 2:17 states, “Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.” The Universal Law of Action simply states, “that you must do something mentally and or physically to support the things that you want to manifest in your life.”  It’s important to understand that action works in tandem with reaction.  What this means is that the work(s) that you need to do to bring your faith alive is to take the action that will initiate and sustain the thing you want to manifest.  The manifestation is the reaction.  Let’s look at this way, if you have a kite you want to launch without having all the requirements

Most people really don’t think in terms of value when making a choice. Perhaps it’s fair to say most people tend to think what’s in it for me.  We tend to think in terms of likes or dislikes or the unfavorable or favorable end result.  It’s important to understand that everything that we do in life reflects it relative worth, merit or importance to us.  The Universal Law of Value, not to be confused with Marx’s law of value simply states that everything that happens for your life has meaning and worth.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the Universal Law of Value, you and making your life happen. #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners

As we begin to scratch the surface on the power of self talk, we begin to explore the Universal Laws or Spiritual Laws that support greater understanding behind self talk.  Our imagination is where we live.  Mystics have throughout the ages told us that to consciously manifest what we desire we must first use our imagination. We must go to where we live. The imagination has a couple of purposes; the correlation of subconscious and conscious thoughts, images and feelings and communication and expression of those thoughts, images and feelings.  So, could there be a greater purpose for your imagination than what you are using it for? And, what are you using your imagination for?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we delve into the imaginary world of our imagination. Join our Facebook live interactive group for downloadable worksheet, live tutorials and more... #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice

How you speak to yourself is how your life will unfold.  2017 is all about understanding the need to consciously direct your self-talk in a way that is conducive to you achieving or experiencing what you want for your life.  Most people are unaware that their self-talk is undermining the very thing that they say they want and are striving for.  Given that you are speaking to yourself 24 hours per day and 365 days a year and this talk is creating your life, it is in your best interest to consciously enter into a productive dialog with self.  This takes clarity, organization and execution and practice, practice, practice.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore self talk.

  Before New Year’s Eve arrives, NOW would be a good time to reflect on the last 362 days of your life.  As you look back embrace the lows and the highs with the same passion, because each thing you have experienced has been instrumental in the shaping of you.  And frankly you got through it  or are making your way through it…whatever it was and or is.   It’s time to use that experience to move you forward. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at where we have been and where we are going.    For more information and tutorials on how to use the Laws of Attraction visit thelawsoattractioninaction.com

You know a ½ truth still equals 1 lie.  The greatest gift you can give your self is “truth” the whole truth and nothing but your truth and living your authentic expression of that truth.  Living an inauthentic life means that you are living a lie and as a result you suppress who you really are meant to be in this life.  The knock on effect of living your life as a lie has compounded interest that you wouldn’t begin to believe. It is astounding the things that you get and don’t because of  being in inauthentic! There are things that you have prayed for which never manifest, because you are not being true to you.  Things that you have attained, yet can’t hold on to is a result of you not living an authentic life. You are both the giver and receiver of this wondrous gift that can set you free like nothing else can do.  No one has the power to give this gift of your truth to you, only you can do that.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Arti

Last week’s show was, for a variety of reasons, a non-starter.  So, today we're bringing to you last week’s information with an added twist.  We're going to talk about many of the different aspects you encounter in life as you strive to achieve your highest potential. We’ll look at choices, word power and empowerment through consciously choosing to be authentic in all things.  We’ll touch on visualization, meditation, the Universal Laws of Attraction and what that means for your ability to manifest. We’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, and why it seems that you are unable to get to where you want to go.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we talk about life and you!

Today we are going to talk about many of the different aspects you encounter in life as you strive to achieve your highest potential. We’ll look at choices, word power and empowerment through consciously choosing to be authentic in all things.  We’ll touch on visualization, meditation, the Universal Laws of Attraction and what that means to your ability to manifest. We’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, why it seems that you and are unable to get to where you want to go.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we talk about life and you!

What do you want to happen for you in 2017?  It’s time to dust your old dreams off, rekindle your passion, create a plan and get in action.  Many people never realize their dreams or tap into their fullest potential, because they don’t know what to do.  They look at the end result in all its glory and simply become overwhelmed or underwhelmed.  Both feelings lead to a kind of paralysis that ends up in getting nothing done.  One week rolls into two which rolls into four and the next thing you know, it’s December 31st and you haven’t done a thing other than wish for the thing you want.  Whether it’s getting in shape, remodeling your home, going into therapy, learning a new language, becoming more spiritual, whatever it is that you want to manifest you’ll need a plan.    Also to support you in this process I’ll be conducting live coaching session on Facebook beginning December 1st 2016.  To participate in this live coaching event join the FB group The Laws of Attraction In Action. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne C

You get to choose what and who you allow to influence the choices you make for your life.  It’s your life it’s your choice! This dictates how you show up in life and how life shows up and responds to you.  This is a fact.  Many people feel that they are at the mercy of external events in their lives.  But this isn’t true.  The truth is you are only at the mercy of what you are choosing to believe and as a result of that how you influence your choices. Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/files/ to download your choice making equation worksheet. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at influence, ownership you and your life.

You don’t know which way to turn.  You don’t know what to do.  You don’t know how to do it.  We’ve all been there.  And these feelings of not knowing what to do, create a kind of paralysis for movement towards what we say we want. So feeling stuck at your fork in your road is all about you, your decision making skills, clarity and choices.  It’s also about the Universal Law of Release.  Without invoking this law you create a scenario that throws into your pathway blocks and hurdles, which prevent you from moving along your pathway fearlessly, easily with conscious awareness and freedom of movement.   When you become stuck and have to make a choice as to which fork in the road you are going to take there is a tendency to panic and panic create fear and fear creates paralysis which skews your thinking.  Then you make choices that don’t serve you well. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we look at the Spiritual Law of Release and why it i