Inner Hoe Uprising

Akua & Sam are joined by guest Kym Oliver a disabled, wheelchair-using, writer, speaker and health coach, to discuss the intersections of sex, romance and disability, Hoe(s) of the Week: Desiree A, Shante, Faheema & Flash Magazine, Michael H. Self Care Tips: Don’t forget to pack a condom Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Kym Oliver about the intersection of disability and sexuality. Topics of discussion include: A multiple sclerosis explainer, MS symptoms, ataxia, fatigue, invisible illness, black women and pain, medical symptom in the UK, dating in a wheelchair, fetishizes, vulnerability, emotional labor, wheelchair inaccessibility, physical intimacy, being unapologetic, online dating, dirty talk, sexual logistics, sex drive, sex checklist, the myth of spontaneous sex, bacterial vaginosis, IUD, fatigue, self-esteem, coercion, sexual assault, victim blaming yourself, remembering your worth, situationships, agency, wasted time, great head & much more. TRIGGER WARNING(S) 1:07:30 - 1

Akua, Rodecka & Sam are in studio to discuss depression, deep throating, dating while anti-social, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Marielle Franco, Tamar Braxton, & Rihanna Hoe(s) of the Week: Terrance M. & Chris I. Self Care Tips: Create and Excel Spreadsheet to manage for finances, you don’t have to shave if you don’t want to, look into your fad diet or workout regimen before beginning it. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rodecka’s weight loss journey, the bachelors degree grind, living with depression, self sabotaging relationships, having feelings for a 19 year old, New Relationship Energy, cryogenically freezing yourself, #meetupMarch, dating whilst anti social, physical assault by a man you don’t know, & ending a toxic relationship Fuck You (Your Lives): Deep Throating, that awkward moment when you have a seizure before a threesome, when your straight friend tries to have sex with you, cant find the words to say to bring your relationship to the next level, & the grad school struggle HASHTAGS Use

A conversation with Raquel Willis about unsung black trans heroines in American history and the present day. Rodecka & Sam are joined by writer and activitst Raquel Willis to discuss: Bae(s) of The Week: Mae Jemison, Peggy Whitson & Mae Reeves Hoe(s) of the Week: Sarah Shalene Photography and Flash Magazine Self Care Tips**:** Coffee Naps (I guess?) Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with activist & writer Raquel Willis about unsung black trans women in American History.  Points of discussion include: Transgender Law Center, racial and socioeconomic disparities that impact Black Transgender women, Mary Jones, Sex work, The Monyihan Report, Hoteps, Frances Thompson, Lucky Hicks Anderson, the fight for marriage equality, Carlett Brown, Trans women may have been the original drag queens, trans antagonism by cis gay men, RuPaul transmisogynistic comments, Marsha P Johnson, Slyvia Rivera, STAR, Stonewall, Happy Birthday Marsha, The Death and Life of Marsha P Johnson, Sir Lady Java, Miss M

Akua & Sam are joined by Lily, an asexual woman who also happens to be into Kink to discuss being an ACE in the BDSM lifestyle. Bae(s) of The Week: QueerWOC + Tea With Queen & J (Money, Nikeeta, Queen & Janicia) Hoe(s) of the Week: Marcus O, Monique M, Kristen w, Imari w, Olivia n, Tayo, Terrieta M, Ophelia, Angharad E, Aria M, QueerWOC and the International Women’s Day Post credit folks Self Care Tips: Put Affirmations in your phone and schedule to send them to yourself throughout the day Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Lily, and asexual woman who is into BDSM. Points of discussion include: Asexuality as a spectrum as opposed to one side of a binary, Demi-sexuals, grey aces, aesthetic, romantic and sexual attraction, cuddling =/= sex, Poly relationships, setting boundaries & negotiating needs, kink as an intense physical experience outside of sexual arousal, the importance of renegotiating, when aces date sexual people, blanket consent, rape culture, behaviors that are mistaken fo

Rob & Sam are joined by guest Zayn to discuss trans masculinity, activism, the Christian faith, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: FDNY EMS Chief Tonya Boyd Hoe(s) of the Week: #RobHive Self Care Tips: Gardening and Earthing Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Zayn Silva (founder of TransAlike) about his activism within the trans community. Points of discussion include: Transitioning, suicidal ideations, coming out as trans to your family, Christianity and being Transgender, faithfulness, love thy neighbor, becoming an outreach activist, the trans community on Youtube, cisgender passing, taking testosterone, perpetually hungry and horny, sexual fluidity whilst transitioning, Grindr, OkCupid, gender dysphoria, dealing with gender dysphoria, fluctuating emotions while taking T, self mourning, reappropriating the t slur, trans male privilege, trans folks in STEM, advice for trans youth, using patience as a tool, trans homelessness, “Help a Brother Out”, binder donations, getting comfortable wi

A special Black History Month episode about important figures in Black Queer History. Bae(s) of The Week: Historical Baes, Nanny of the Maroons and Lucille Bogan aka Bessie Jackson Hoe(s) of the Week: Hoel, Ezraell T, Rebecca, Spike Lowery Self Care Tips: Use a humidifier and oil your scalp Fuck That (Current Events): Queer Black History with queer non binary history enthusiast, Da’Shaun Harrison, Audre Lorde, biomythography, Zami a New Spelling of My Name, Womanism, Bayard Rustin, Black Lives Matter, Brittany Ferrell and Alexis Templeton, Organizing as Queer Black People, Straight Cis People expecting to be at the forefront of movement building, Queerness in precolonial Africa, sexual binaries as a Western construct, Black Ballroom culture, Paris is Burning, trans women, femmes, folks living with HIV, drag queens, Dorian Corey, Pepper La Beija, Octavia St. Laurent, Queer Black Lingo, Shade & to Read, Morehouse, queer communities, articulating ones queerness, Stonewall Riots, Marsha P Johnson, LGB

A special Black History Month episode about black women in the age of COINTELPRO. Bae(s) of The Week: Audley “ Queen Mother” Moore Hoe(s) of the Week: Earline S. Ty G., Kimberly B., Intelligent Aj, Danyale H aka CupcakeTellEm Self Care Tips: Cleansing during moon phases Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Women during the Cointelpro Era, Rob explains what cointelpro was, Assata Shakur, political prisoners, being a political prisoner, solitary confinement, unjust prison conditions, being pregnant in prison, Cuba, Angela Davis, Dynamite Hill, Soledad Brothers, Inequities in legal support, Leon Letwin, Redacted info, Nikki Giovanni, A Short Essay of Affirmation Explaining Why (With Apologies to the Federal Bureau of Investigation), Gaslighting and Black paranoia, FBI agent memes, sexual gratification of harassing black people, “Going to Meet the Man” by James Baldwin, Assata Shakur’s ex husband & gender roles, WEBSITE
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A special Black History Month episode with Historian Robyn C. Spencer discussing the women of the Black Panther Party in Oakland. Bae(s) of The Week: Lottie “the Body” Graves & the entire cast of Black Panther Hoe(s) of the Week: Gustavo M, Alicia D (yas), Destinty R, Alex R, Sydney C, Kim O, Albert, @sirscupcake, Victoria M & Janicia Self Care Tips: Color and Doodle Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Historian Robyn C. Spencer about women in the Black Panther Party in Oakland. Talking points include: Becoming a historian as a black woman, Assata Shakur, being an activist historian, international activism, “brothers on the block,” men as protectors & providers, Huey Newton and Bobby Seale, challenging ideas of women as protectors, reasons women joined the black panther party, “Pantherettes,” nebulous gender roles, Nation of Islam, a lack of historical evidence and records, “jive sisters do no apply,” recruiting women, hot (attractive) black panthers, romantic pursuits in joining, blac

The first installment of Inner Hoe Uprising’s Black History Month Series. Discussing black women's role in American Anti-Rape movements. Akua, Rodecka & Sam are together in to discuss: Bae(s) of The Week: Shirley Chisholm, Claudette Colvin, Pauli Murray Hoe(s) of the Week: Samantha G, Destiny R, Alli B, Bryan, Louanne A, Akeem, Maroussia J, G, Tawanna S & Jessica M Self Care Tips: Archive your ancestors Fuck That (Current Events): ‘Drag Race’ Star, Peppermint To Make History As A Trans Leading Lady On Broadway Fuck It (Topic of the Day): The OGs of the #MeToo Movement: A conversation on black women’s anti rape activism in America (and the americas), Maria W. Stewart, Sexual assault during American Slavery, Abolitionist movement, Mary Prince, slave narratives, Harriet Jacobs, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Rape Laws, The Civil War, Lincolns Liber Code, the Jezebel stereotype, the Black women are unrapeable myth, Crystal Fiester, Danielle McGuire, Tarana Burke, Reconstruction, lynching

Akua & Sam are joined by fem domme guest Mistress Unknown to discuss pegging, tantric sex, cuckholding, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Yves Mattieu Hoe(s) of the Week: Cupcake Tel Em, Karen, Megan, Tandrea H, Heather O Self Care Tips: Green Juice Smoothies & kefir Fuck That (Current Events): Barney is a tantric sex “specialist” Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Mistress Unknown about being a lifestyle and professional femme domme (dominatrix), charging people as a female dominatrix, Dom/sub spectrum, sex work stigma, safety, screening clients, swindling, scheming, assault-y customers, rape scenes, pegging, financial doms or fin-doms, being a black femme domme, being anonymous, sex slaves, house boys, being outed by facebook and instagram, vanilla life, client demographics, black men reconciling with being sex slaves given our history with slavery, black men expecting discounts, religious boundaries, older men, bartering skills for Dom sessions, hard limits, submissives, having a pa

Rodecka & Sam are joined by La Tetra to discuss yoni eggs, crystals, spirituality, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: @pettyblackboy & @https_royals Hoe(s) of the Week: @bishara_pierre, @Yana_Yz, @Jay_Gretchen, @saignin, @SpookySiku, @sarahtaughtyou, QueerWoc, @shantell_the_OL, @blackvenusian, @kibirdie, @anitaxcii, @deriatalksback, @LizzaBetz, @HeavC4, Wayne, Anna T, EVRST Vapes, Karl Reeves, Buju Selah, Cpurple608, LeHouseCat, DiamondStylz,NineOneCeauty, Afro-Blerd Self Care Tips: Get your annual Pap, National Stalking Awareness Month Resources for Victims of Stalking: www.victimsofcrime.org/src. Contact at 202-467-8700 or src@ncvc.org Fuck That (Current Events): Blockchain based app LegalFling creates contracts to prove one night stands are “consensual,” 4 black lesbian women were murdered within a week — and mainstream media didn’t cover their deaths, A couple who met on Neopets as children get married, the beauty of online dating, & Catfishing back in the day Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Blac

Rob & Sam are joined by guests Estephanie & Lina to discuss black, latinx, femininity. Bae(s) of The Week: Shears For Queers Barber @dezgotskills Hoe(s) of the Week: Joel, Noelani, Megan, Randy, Sabblah & Rodicks entire family. As well as Akeem, Grace P & Antonnette C Self Care Tips: Curate your social media feeds. Use the soft block when you need to. Fuck That (Current Events)**:** Begins @ 00:18:00 — Faulty A.I. keeps mistaking sand dunes for nudes, Elon Musk sex parties, How hospitals and racial biases are leading to fatal childbirths for black parents and mothers, Serena Williams birth complications, Ginuwine, India WIlloghby, Celbrity Big Brother & Transphobia Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Begins @ 00:57:00 — A conversation with Lina & Estephanie of the Bag Ladies Podcast. Points of discussion include: Afro Lantix Femmes, growing up Dominican, the term Latinx and language based gender binaries, what does Latinx identity mean in Latin America, finding your identity within academia, epxperi

The first Inner Hoe Uprising Live Show & Season 4 Premiere Rob, Akua, Rodecka, and Sam are in front of a live studio audience to discuss: Bae(s) of The Week: Michaela Cole, Leticia Wright & John Boyega Hoe(s) of the Week: The live show audience! Self Care Tips: Marisol socks will keep your feet warm and dry Fuck That (Current Events): Naked workout classes in Soho, putting your bare ass on toilet seats, people are whitening their dicks in Thailand Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A drunken game of ’Never Have I Ever,’ sex injuries, gyno tales, fucking the homies and siblings, faking orgasms, squirting, removing objects from vaginas, calling out the wrong name, sex without kissing, sex with a racist, period sex, Fuck Me (Our Lives): Quickie tales about our lives. Akua’s free bled and tried the menstrual cup Fuck You (Your Lives): Questions from the Audience! How to tell my boyfriend I want an open relationship, my partner wants me to sexually exclusive to him but not vice versa SPONSOR(S)

Rob & Sam are joined by Nono the Poet to recite some erotic poetry. A tangent turned review of She’s Gotta Have it (The Netflix Original Series) SPOILERS: 7:18 - 20:59 Bae(s) of The Week: Janicia & Naima of Tea with Queen & J, Estefani & Lena of Bag Ladies & Money & Nikeeta of QueerWOC. A discussion on the blackest, dopest, brunch we’ve ever attended. Hoe(s) of the Week: CocoMangoCherry, @idiotwastaken, Gavin Self Care Tips: Use Your coupons, Don’t put baby powder in your panties (To hear more listen to our episode: “Grade School Crushes” @ 32 mins in) Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Nono The Poet about her erotic literature, using writing as a tool to cope with pain, sitting and dealing with negative thoughts and feelings, connecting with an audience of women of color through art, A live reading of “Love Inquiry” and “Soul Vagina,” reactions to erotic poetry from friends, family, & fans, self-identity & self-actualization, reconciling spirituality, god & sex & much more. Fuc

Akua & Sam are joined by dancer Tyde-Courtney Evans to discuss reclaiming your body, mind, and spirituality after a sexual assault. Bae(s) of The Week: Australia Hoe(s) of the Week: cupcaketellem & #akuahive, @olalaits_french, Hoel, empress shida , @phloring, Nicole R, Jagger Blaec, Fuck That (Current Events): Anal bleaching may be on rise, Kenyan Widows are fighting against sexual cleansing, Misogyny in Africa, Cheating Ben, ‘Black Mirror’s’ take on dating apps TRIGGER WARNING(S): 53:43 - 57:53 Description of rape Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Tyde-Courtney of Ballet After Dark, a self care and dance company that caters to survivors of sexual assault. Points of conversation include: reconnecting with your physical body after sexual assault, finding fitting therapist, hospitals that mishandle rape survivors, coping with self blame and guilt following an attack, dealing with law enforcement post rape, unresolved rape kits, unwanted pregnancies, fighting for people to believe yo

Rebecca & Sam are joined by DJ Debbie to discuss being a queer Caribbean, the lesbian party community, and DJaying events for women by women. Bae(s) of The Week: Acadia of the Sex Hub & Demi Lovato Hoe(s) of the Week: Fab Fresh and Fly, EVRST Vapes, Aquin0o, Melanated_Martian, Pseudo.Sophisticate Self Care Tips: Be careful with edibles, alcohol might not be for you, stop beating yourself up Fuck That (Current Events): The Sex Robots are Cummin! A semi break down of innovations in the sex robot industry including: Realbotix, Harmony AI, Samantha the Sex Robot, Roxxy, Frigid Farrah, Oral Robot from Arlan Robotics, Sophia, Frubber, self warming genitals, sex robots and rape culture, sex work, & awkward robot lingo Fuck It (Topic of the Day): An interview with Soca Artist & Deejay, Debbie. Points of conversation include: Deejaying in the lesbian community, finding a queer Caribbean niche to play soca music for, being a woman rapper in the 1990s, 90s hip hop scene, what is soca music, repping big wo

Rob & Sam discuss hotep conspiracy theories, amazing dates, baby-mama drama, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Delta Major & Ty Hoe(s) of the Week: Jazzeb, Tanya B, Shocara , Unfair Pokémon Update, Sarah, Katy & Chelsea, @AfroKai, Perfect Kast, IHU Live buyers Self Care Tips: Repetitive tasks to help quell anxiety & petting your dog Fuck That (Current Events): NYC extends paid sick leave to survivors of domestic violence and sex trafficking, a film based on the life of bisexual boxer Emile Griffith, openly gay athletes we love, air pollution associated with abnormal sperm, perhaps hotep conspiracy theories rooted in a tad of science, ‘Sis is this Your Man?” Facebook groups, & the wonderful world of freak Facebook pages Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam went on a very nice date, Rob is avoiding getting caught up with a problematic man, when he has several baby mamas, dating someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same energy you give them Fuck You (Your Lives): He gave me the best dick of my life and then blo

All four hoes are in studio to answer your listener letters! Fuck You (Your Lives): Questions & stories include: Should I break up with my pothead down on his luck boyfriend? Fuck-buddy-turned-something-more got bitter after I denied him sex. What gives? Lawd, that Blerds episode…whoms mans was that? My first gangbang and I’m goin in raw! I asked my boyfriend for more affection and that’s okay. What happens when you start dating your twin flame? Other topics include: being 20-something sucks, shitting where you eat, hidden baby mamas, mistaking intimacy for feelings, problematic guests, do your have sex while LARPing, an open gang bang casting call, issues asserting oneself & love languages. WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com **PAY A BITCH** 
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Rebecca, Rob, Akua & Sam discuss how to flirt, intersex folks, cheating, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Alisha Guffy of the Ask and Tell Project, Tessa Thompson, Taika Watiti, Kid Mero Hoe(s) of the Week: Destin M, Erika the Sex Ed Teacher, cococherrymango, Arieal Hood, Kyah Chameleon, Feminist Fatal, Empress Shida, hildesegonvonbanchet, _DaniNicole, HeavC4, Guy_L_G, _Funnydudegav_ Self Care Tips: Spend a little less time complaining, Wake up half an hour early Fuck That (Current Events): Plane is forced to land after husband is caught cheating, Germany to recognize and designate third gender on documents for intersex people, should gender even be on birth certificates, the new batch of open transgender elected officials, Fuck Me (Our Lives): when you’re officially over your ex, introducing new dick into your life, how to flirt with women Fuck You (Your Lives): A call out from cat regarding last weeks episode RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES #AskAndTell Project: http://askandtell.com/ WEBSIT

Rebecca & Sam speak with Professor XX, a sex comediene. Bae(s) of The Week: Demetria Obilor, Mette Towley, Miss Peru 2018 Contestants Hoe(s) of the Week: De Mack, Crystalized, Essenif, Phloring & NapMaster Self Care Tips: Floss below the gum line and smell it. Fuck That (Current Events): The mile high club, giving head without protection, men from Brooklyn, porn plays “accidentally” in high school cafeteria, resort in the Bahamas caters to plus size patrons only Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with a sex comedian, getting into comedy, when your jokes bomb, being a woman who openly discusses sex and sexuality, oppressive monogamy, “101 Ugly Penises,” the politically correct comedy debate Fuck Me (Our Lives): Doing the damn thing, headwrap mami, the fuck list, when someone scrolls months to like your picture, WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A BITCH 
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Opening: “Queen S%!T” SheReal https://soundclou