Inner Hoe Uprising

Akua & Sam are joined by Lily, an asexual woman who also happens to be into Kink to discuss being an ACE in the BDSM lifestyle. Bae(s) of The Week: QueerWOC + Tea With Queen & J (Money, Nikeeta, Queen & Janicia) Hoe(s) of the Week: Marcus O, Monique M, Kristen w, Imari w, Olivia n, Tayo, Terrieta M, Ophelia, Angharad E, Aria M, QueerWOC and the International Women’s Day Post credit folks Self Care Tips: Put Affirmations in your phone and schedule to send them to yourself throughout the day Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Lily, and asexual woman who is into BDSM. Points of discussion include: Asexuality as a spectrum as opposed to one side of a binary, Demi-sexuals, grey aces, aesthetic, romantic and sexual attraction, cuddling =/= sex, Poly relationships, setting boundaries & negotiating needs, kink as an intense physical experience outside of sexual arousal, the importance of renegotiating, when aces date sexual people, blanket consent, rape culture, behaviors that are mistaken fo