Inner Hoe Uprising

Phone Sex Operator and founder of Hoe University Tay Footman joins Sam and Rebecca to discuss founding a company that aims to train folks in becoming phone sex operators. Bae(s) of The Week: Megan Thee Stallion Hoe(s) of the Week: Britt, Feminist Fatal, & Aly Lew Self Care Tips: Free Condom Finder Websites Courtesy of Britt https://npin.cdc.gov/widgets/condomfinder/#/ https://save.lovetoknow.com/Get_Free_Condoms_for_Teenagers_Online https://www.teensource.org/condoms/free https://knowyo.org/get-free-condoms/ http://ohiv.org/learn/free-condoms/ http://www.testmiami.org/condoms Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Tay about phone sex operating and creating Hoe University. Discussion points include: Raising a child with a disability, 1900 numbers, phone sex operating, foley noises, phone sex internships, financial domination (findom), how majoring in business can help your sex work practice, 7 streams of income, physical sex work in relation to phone based sex work, race

Sam, Akua, and Rodecka unpack queerness, talk about the rising STD rates in America, chat about religious f*ckboys, and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Whoreible Decisions, Vagesteem, CUNTCAST, TheSexually Liberated Woman, Kinks with Keke, The Hoe Phase, CockTales, Sexual Flavas Hoe(s) of the Week: Stephanie H, Kiara Sylvester, Patrice Peck, The Sex Expo Attendees Self Care Tips: Diet Culture is a capitalist scam that you don’t have to buy into to be happy or sexy Find out your Arousal Type Fuck That (Current Events): The surge in syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia, How often should you get tested, Disease Intervention Specialists, and alerting people that they may have been exposed to an STI Fuck Me (Our Lives): unpacking Akua’s gayness, experiencing queerness later in life, crushing on childhood girl friends, amateur porn, voyeurism, I am antisocial, I don’t know how to date people, having friends in your twenties, irritability and anger, and a draining work place Fuck You (Your Lives): what to do after a

Cuckquean Shayna joins Akua & Sam to talk about the sexual excitement of watching your partner f*ck someone else. Bae(s) of The Week: Janelle & Omotayo of Sippin & Spillin, Molly of Cup Queens, Ryan of Healthyish, Faye of Ryan Health Network, & Jasmine of Waysted Studio Love & Light: Londonn Moore Kinard, Sasha Garden, Celine Walker, Antonia English, Cathalina Christina James & Vanity Hoe(s) of the Week: Prisma, Ashley, imari, Amani, Danny & Cleo Self Care Tips: Set a schedule for yourself when you’re freelancing and/or unemployed Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Cuckqueaning Points of Discussion Include: What is a cuckold/cuckquean, dealing with jealousy, open relationships, threesomes, cuckcakes, bulls, being a pleaser, pride, narcissistic attraction, accidental cucks, DPing, f*cking your friends, vouyerism, exibitionism, swinger parties, boundaries, racism in cuckolding, using cuck as an insult, is cuckolding selfish?, demisexuality, cucking that stems from trauma, & the swinger community in t

The Hoes are back from summer vacation! Bae(s) of The Week: Y’lan Noel & the hosts of Marsha’s Plate Hoe(s) of the Week: Gee-Laurie H., Meira H, Calvin Pierce Jr, Addie & Anna, Monique, & Tayo Self Care Tips: Take a MF break when you need to. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Vacationing with bae, getting laid off, fucking an old crush, trauma, and hoeing in the DR Other topics discussed include: Insatiable, academia, Insecure, Pose & American Horror Story HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES INSECURE SUNDAYS AT LUV STORY  Sundays at 9PM-12AM at 894 Wyckoff Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11237 Sex Expo Free with RSVP: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2018-sex-expo-new-york-tickets-42908930767 WEBSITE 
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Sam pops in with an update on the Hoes RODECKA ON EXPLAINED Catch Rodecka’s Cameo on Netflix’s Explained episode “The Female Orgasm” INSECURE SUNDAYS AT LUV STORY  Sundays at 9PM-12AM at 894 Wyckoff Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11237 SIPPIN AND SPILLIN: UNCUFFIN SZN Catch Sam Moderating a discussion of masturbation and heath sexuality The purpose of Sippin’ & Spillin’ is to create a safe space for women of color to empower themselves to take control of their sexual health.  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sippin-spillin-uncuffing-szn-tickets-48280924545 VOTE FOR SAM’S SXSW PANEL “WHERE ARE THE PODCAST BLACCENTS” https://panelpicker.sxsw.com/vote/88534 Don’t forget to Sign in (Create and Account) before you vote. Don’t click Register, click “sign in”.  WEBSITE
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 “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co SOCIAL MEDIA Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @Inn

The Hoes are going on vacation for the rest of the summer! Here’s one last hoorah before we return in September.  Bae(s) of The Week: Tasia Morgan & Sis We Eatin  Hoe(s) of the Week: Everyone who attended Inner Hoe Uprising Day & Night, Tea with queen and J, Bag Ladiez, Perfect Kast, We Come from Queens, Enter the Minds Fuck water, Uberlube, Lelo, Funky Junk Wipes, Jae walk Jewels, Estephanie, Emojibator, Babeland, @dashketchum, @ a_real_gi, Mistress Thick, Siku, Jasmine, Spinelli, BostonChery, DJ Rocwell, @bre_smiley, Luv Story, Breanna, Bryelle, Belle, Ceasar, Nadege, Gavan, Marty, Angela @sabblahtheshooter, Preach, and CastSoundLab
 Self Care Tips: Do things alone when you feel lonely.  Fuck Me (Our Lives):Ready to hop back into dating, owning your quee rness, unbecoming yourself to become yourself, In a room with several of your bodies, New Orleans, Dallas, Southern Hospitality, PolyDallas Millennium, Summer Vacation, MMF threesome, Dominican Republic, dry and painful sex, fuckwater lube, rough patch

A panel of black masculine folks of size discuss sex, love, and dating while being a “big n*gga” Bae of the Week; Ruby Johnson and PolyDallas Millennium Hoes of the week: Dea W., Madison P., Antionne M, Anna N., Kia, Amelia H., Calvin Pierce Jr,  Jasmyn Elliott, Opulence Abundance,TWQJ, We Come From Queens, Enter Tha Minds, Bag Ladies, The Perfect Kast, & @Amani Richardson Selfcare tip of the Week: Massage your back with a Softball  Fuck It (Topic of the Day): growing up big, growing up to be big, being called fat, big masculine people sticking up for big feminine people, fear of public perception, supporting fat femmes, privileges of bigger a bigger masculine person, Big N*gga Season, snacks, big people myths, cuddling, stereotypes and misconceptions, courage, visibility, lil fizz privileges, M’Baku, #BigNiggaTwitter, being called thick, make room for feminine folks, dating big femmes, the summer body, weight loss, intimidating people being a big masculine person, teddy bear stereotype, online dating, be

Jimmy Hill, CEO and Founder of Xrysalis, an annual gathering created by and for Queer, Transgender, and Intersex People of Color joins Akua and Sam to discuss the importance of cultivating queer black healing spaces. Points of Discussion Include: Cultivating spaces outside of the white gaze, bridging gaps between queer black people, black tokenism in white activist spaces, what to do when restorative events are over, the importance of nature in healing spaces, public nudity, meditation, yoga, and mindfulness, acupuncture, why aren’t black healing spaces used provided on a regular basis, scarcity thinking, The Bar Area, Colorado, gentrification, capitalist barriers, clothing optional, public sex,  INNER HOE UPRISING DAY & NIGHT PARTY (July 28, 2018) $20 for full day | $5 for night party http://bit.ly/IHU-Day-and-Night HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES http://www.xrysalis.net

Rob chats with Sam about securing the bag, being brolic, when your career field is hella white, hella male and hella racist, wanting to be courted, falling in love with the idea of a person, hot and cold lovers, a lack of feminists in the military, teaching people about your identities, and more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  Inner Hoe Uprising Day & Night Party (July 28, 2018):  $20 for full day | $5 for night party http://bit.ly/IHU-Day-and-Night SOCIAL MEDIA Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rob | Personal IG: @panafrican.bootyscratcher | Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  WEBSITE 
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Rodecka, Akua, and Sam discuss emotional labor, summertime horniness, 3 date rules, falling victim to ghosting & more! Bae(s) of The Week: Janicia & Queen Hoe(s) of the Week: Dea W, Rianne, E.L Smith McPetty, Addie A., Kia, Tandrea, Kellik Dawson, RubyWrites, Feminist Fatal Bossier Mag Self Care Tips: Sit with your emotions — name and claim them. Take up space verbally and physically and don’t feel shame in doing so Fuck Me (Our Lives): falling off your diet, doing emotional labor at work, racist work environments, identifying your problems, Summer time horniness, XXXTentacion, pansexuality, a 3 date rule, when someone ghosts you, a panic attack, how to deal with anxiety, and more. Fuck You (Your Lives): I was ghosted on Tinder. Now what? Inner Hoe Uprising Day & Night Party (July 28, 2018): $20 for full day | $5 for night party http://bit.ly/IHU-Day-and-Night HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you

Our first Rob minisode! Rob chats with Sam about being transgender in the military, fasting during Ramadan, military hoe-ing, tinder in Germany and more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SOCIAL MEDIA Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: InnerHoeUprisin Rob | Personal IG: @panafrican.bootyscratcher | Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god WEBSITE 
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 Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com

A round table discussion with 4 fat femmes on the intersection of being a person of size, as it pertains to sex, love, dating, and romance.  Bae(s) of The Week: Bag Ladies, We Come From Queens, & J Hoe(s) of the Week: Love Fanatic, Lidia B, Virginia C, Becky C, Gloria B, Lindsey B, & Taylor Jordan Holmes Self Care Tips: Tips for thigh chafing  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  A round table discussion with Rebecca, Siku, Diamond & Fees about intersection of being a fat femme, sex, love, dating, and romance.  Points of discussion include: Growing up fat, clawbacks, becoming a bully, getting loved on, getting bullied, public shame, abuse, being fat & _______, sexualization and exploitation of fat girls, summer hoodies, believing that people like you, hindered sexual relationships, missed connections, mike jones effect, fat girl magic, fat stereotypes, hygiene stereotypes, getting on top, dating apps, fat women having sex with fat women, being fetishized, questioning fat peoples partners, the ideal

The Hoes talk ugliness, International Sex Worker’s Day, Cuckqueaning, being naked, courting, homie-hopping, resenting an ex and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Rihanna Hoe(s) of the Week: Ayanna C. & deadbinch Poly Dallas Millennium Winners: TexanCaliGirl, Alien227, AngelicaSaint, Doula Jai, & Hon.E.Bunch
 Self Care Tips: Take a break from social media Fuck That (Current Events): Is the mother of Drake’s child “ugly”? What does it mean to be Ugly, International Sex Workers Day, SESTA/FOSTA, Pay Sex Workers, PornHub, Diane Black, & “Porn Leads to School Shootings”  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Men from Uptown are Fuckboys, “I’m A Hoe That Likes to be Courted,” Summer is going to get whatever body I give it, Loving your Naked Body, Probably a cuck definitely a vouyver, dom/sub sessions, homie hopping, fearing like your behind in life, getting over an ex years later, jealous over your ex’s happiness, losing friends post-breakup,  Fuck You (Your Lives): Finally treating my partner the way they deserve to be treated & my

The Hoes talk capitalism woes, a pregnancy scare, talking versus texting, catching feelings & more. Bae(s) of The Week: @papaganda, @derekachadwick  & @ashleighchubbybunny Hoe(s) of the Week: Karen, Danielle Ellis aka lawyer bae, Lily Zheng, Roselyn, Amberlynn R, Jasmine K, Calvin Pierce Jr, Rob & Eli Saddiq Self Care Tips: Don’t let capitalism turn you into a machine Fuck Me (Our Lives): independent monogamy, abstaining from dick, a pregnancy scare, old anniversaries, anger issues, handling conflict better, being scared to give birth, will you risk your life for your child, disillusioned with marriage, texting vs. talking, selfishness, compromise, weight loss journey, and missing feeling full of food Fuck You (Your Lives): journeying into hoe-dom, age gap fuck buddy, don’t let the neighbors know, getting attached, catching feelings, what to do about your boyfriend and sugar daddy and a Former cheater discovers they are polyamorous. HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conver

Solo Polyamorous Relationship Anarchist Roselyn joins Akua & Sam to talk about being solo poly. Bae(s) of The Week: Doria Ragland Hoe(s) of the Week: Moon Witch, Christina B, Cheyenne W  Self Care Tips: Prioritize those difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Roselyn about solo polyamory. Points of discussion include: cohabitation, traditional marriage, intentional space between partners, individuality, living alone, economic insecurity, anti-capitalist economic resource sharing, relationship anarchy, counter-hegemonic personal relationships, power dynamics, gender norms, opening space for men to open up emotionally, intersectional feminism, discomfort, soul mates, romance myths, self as primary, co-dependency, partners not having a say in your other relationships, Nola Darling, She’s Gotta Have It, & the myth of sacrifice HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are liste

Non monogamous unicorn and parent Evita joins Sam and Akua to discuss being in triads and raising children while poly. Hoe(s) of the Week: Melissa P, Lauren H., Huwie K, JM, Rueben, Milton K, Samantha J. @cupcaketellem @empressshida @fannandownorrby @timimiemarak garumpy_gaby saramakeba, cococherry mango, and all Apple Reviewers! Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Evita joins us to discuss triads, unicorning, parenting while poly. Points of discussion include: Opening a monogamous relationship up, couple privilege, resentment, jealousy, closed and open triads, needs and expectations, anger issues, rocky relationships, accountability, borderline abuse, on again off again, triad break up, “failing” at polyamory, being petty and salty, public triad, silent arguments, boundaries and how to set them, how to let your children know that you’re poly, intruding your children to your multiple partners, feeling disposable, a multi-parent household, how do poly-breakups effect children, the benefits of having poly parents

Sex therapist and open relationship coach Ruby B. Johnson joins Rebecca & Sam to discuss polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Bae(s) of The Week: Salty (Keryce, Claire and JingYu) Hoe(s) of the Week: Diamond and CupcakeTellem Self Care Tips: Use scrubbing gloves in the shower Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with sex therapist and open relationship coach, Ruby B. Johnson about polyamory. Points of discussion include: becoming a sex therapist, polyamorous misconceptions, white folks business, black and poly community, black swinger community, fetishisim, polyamory and the church, BDMS & Kink, racial implications within Kink, sex negativity, poly mentors, poly myths, jealousy, unrealistic expectations, polyamory and a sexual orientation, oppressive monogamy, patriarchy, chattel slavery, black femme sexuality, the history of gynecology, marriage, how polyamory can benefit your life, sexuality in older folks, switching from monogamous to poly, parenting while poly, sex therapy, Audre Lorde

Part one of our Polyga-May series. An exploration into polyamory and ethical non monogamy. In this episode Akua, Sam, and Rodecka discuss: Bae(s) of The Week: Kehlani, Janelle Monae, and a brief discussion on pansexuality. Hoe(s) of the Week: Hilde, Sx Noir and a #PodinLiveNYC shout out Self Care Tips: Cayenne Pepper Cucumbers Fuck Me (Our Lives): Our experiences with polyamory. Points of discussion Include: finding out your friends are in a poly relationship, constant communication, family members in the lifestyle, swingers, polyamory in the media, hall passes, open relationships, is polyamory a trend?, people who use polyamory to be manipulative, cuckholding, Am I a cheater or am I poly?, time management, consistency, and more. Fuck You (Your Lives): How do you share without hurting? What is the difference between polyamory and an open relationship? Can you change your mind in a poly relationship? Threeway relationships How do you parent in a poly relationship? How do

Rebecca, Akua, and Sam discuss FOSTA/SESTA, lesbian porn, Hoe Season, BDSM, abstinence, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Young MA Hoe(s) of the Week: Boston Come Thru, TWQJ, QueerWOC, Marsha’s Plate & Bag Ladies Self Care Tips: Revel in your wash day routine Fuck That (Current Events): FOSTA/SESTA puts sex workers at risk for violence, How to support sex workers, Young MA directs a porno set to one of her old mixtapes Fuck Me (Our Lives): a Dom/Sub relationship, when a one night stand hits you up the next day, cute dates, allowing for space in your relationship, absence makes the heart grow fonder, abstinence, living your best life, disassociating, and the glow up Fuck You (Your Lives): Am I poly or just a cheater? Is there hope in my ailing relationship? My f*ckbuddy is mad that I be thotting HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. SPONSOR(S) Check out Simple Contacts and get $30 o

Rodecka & Sam are joined by Sex Tech Entrepreneur Lidia Bonilla to discuss women in sex tech, sex robots, toys and more. Bae(s) of The Week: @_kayswole and Melissa Lozada-Olivia Hoe(s) of the Week: SGuilb, MaxA, Diamond, Travis T, Ashley J, Renee R, Bryan B, Intellegent AJ, Jason EG & Money Self Care Tips: take off those tight ass jeans, sweat the small stuff Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A Conversation with Sex Tech Entrepreneur Lidia Bonilla. _Points of discussion include_: where do you keep your sex toys, shame and stigma of using sex toys, lube, TSA & airports, ‘pink it and shrink it’, elegant sex toys, product design, sex taken seriously, trailblazing women in sex tech, Babeland, customer feedback on sex toys, Kickstarter, Payment share apps, banks, & sex work, high risk bank industry, getting flagged on facebook, decriminalizing sex work, the Hitachi massager, The Women of Sex Tech, Polly Rodriguez, Make Love Not Porn, sex hack-athons, sex robots, tacky sex items & more #PODINLIVENYC (Bl