Inner Hoe Uprising

Akua & Sam are joined by DJ & John to discuss the phenomenon of gay men dating straight men. Bae(s) of The Week: @reallifeamazon & @icountsixshots Hoe(s) of the Week: Berry, Tawana, Ezreal, Money & @ijgianna Self Care Tips: Go to the doctor (if you can) & massage yourself Fuck That (Current Events): Russian teen decapitates “friend” for sexually assaulting his girlfriend & the NYC Stripper Strike Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Dating “the trade,” origins of the term “trade” in Gay slang and culture, the down-low community, “never tell the trade they’re the trade”, homosexual men seeking straight men, socioeconomics of the trade, safety, the transaction, getting turnt out, coming out already in a relationship, when straight men come on to you, turning men out, gay superpowers, making your partner feel comfortable enough to tell you that they’re gay/bi/trade/questioning, falling in love with the trade, abusive relationships, when the trade takes advantage, self growth & self love, open communication

Rob & Sam are joined by teacher Erika to discuss sex education in schools. Bae(s) of The Week: Black Panther Cast, Michael B Jordan, Riley J Dennis Hoe(s) of the Week: rmlundy jr, rrollerr, A_Haptism, Alexis from Brooklyn, rosenaintred, Empress Shida, Snowgoggles Self Care Tips: Cleanse your space and remove traumatic cues Fuck That (Current Events): Condoms don’t fit dicks perfectly, custom-made bespoke condoms, men not wiping their asses properly due to fear of being perceived as gay, man is put on sex offenders list for non consensually grabbing woman breasts during sex, consent Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with a sex ed & health teacher from Maryland, teaching form an intersectional feminist perspective, parental reactions to sexual education, the curriculum, positive student feedback, dealing with gender and sexual identities in the classroom, creating safe respectful classrooms, bullying, teachable moments, navigating topics outside of the curriculum, reporting potential chi

Rebecca & Sam are joined by Nenna, the founder of Feelmore: Adult Gallery, to discuss sex stores and adult shops. Bae(s) of The Week: The collective Hoe(s) of the Week: russellgreene, brienichelle, DaniDee & CruzanK Self Care Tips: Lemon, honey, garlic tea; ACV face toner, CBD oil Fuck That (Current Events): “She’s Gotta Have It” the series coming to Netflix, Parent appalled that daughter is learning about sexual orientation in Georgia school’s health class, New study claims that AI Facial Recognition software can distinguish gay people from straight people, Facebook’s “People You May Know” feature is outing sex workers. Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with the owner of Feelmore: Adult Store and Gallery, sex stores, community staples, Inclusivity of black and brown people in adult shops, community reaction to an adult store, growing a customer base in the sex shop industry, “our bullets don’t hurt” campaign, incorporating political beliefs into a business, community inclusion thru se

Akua & Sam are joined by guest sexuality doula Ev’Yan to discuss stepping out of sexual shame. Bae(s) of The Week: Miriah Jasmine @rilahhh__ Hoe(s) of the Week: @SkootiepuffJr, AK Lewis, Asha, @MissKris18, @BougieTweetsMPH Self Care Tips: Move naked in the mirror Fuck That (Current Events): Samantha the Sex Robot molested by a gang of barbarians at electronic expo, teen moms in Ohio falling thru crack in health care laws, Keyshia Ka'oir bathed Gucci Mane, House GOP uses Las Vegas tragedy to justify passing new anti-abortion bill Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A Conversation with a Sexuality Doula, stepping out of sexual shame, sex negative religious upbringings, purity contracts, sexual anxiety, working thru sexual hang ups, the journey towards sexual liberation, sexual counseling, how our deepest emotions effect our sex lives, Crystal dildos, witchcraft, masturbation guides, having a relationship with your vagina, deconstruct colonial ideas of beauty, Tumblr representation, making sexual liberati

Rebecca, Rob & Sam discuss Hugh Hefner, bullied queer teens, black love, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: @JamaicanHoney, Tables & Chairs Brawl Woman Hoe(s) of the Week: toritaj, ogstefani, nouriyollc, iTunes Reviewers, SGuilb & Rell Self Care Tips: Don’t drink when you’re emotional Fuck That (Current Events): College in Indian lists 3 genders: male, female, gay, Hijra folks in India, Rikers Island Inmate used as rape enforcer for corrections officers, the Stanford Prison Experiment, Hugh Hefner was a sexist, manipulative, abuser, Oxford student stabs her boyfriend - deemed too bright for prison and gets a delayed sentence, Teen Bullied for being gay & Latinx stabs and slashes classmates, the atmosphere for queer kids in NYC, the glorification of bullying Fuck Me (Our Lives): Getting dragged around by an unsure partner, breaking up, over compensating for a distant partner, loving yourself the way you love other people, constantly falling back with an old partner, grieving Fuck You (Your Lives):

Rob & Sam are joined by self proclaimed pretty boy Joel to discuss fluid gender expressions. Bae(s) of The Week: Swet Shop Boys, Issa Rae, Lena Waithe Hoe(s) of the Week: Kiana, Aisha, ‘Bama Fam, Jessica R, Maroussia J Self Care Tips: Self Defense Class in Chicago, Being stingy Fuck That (Current Events): White Male MAGA student fails to get classmate and DACA recipient deported, Brazilian judge legalizes gay conversion therapy in Brazil, #curagay, debunking conversion therapy, Albert Haynesworth, Domestic Violence towards men Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Pretty Boys, A conversation with a feminine cisgender heterosexual man about the fluidity of his gender expression, assuming someones gender identity, getting cat called as a man, feminine relationship bonding, gay/straight male friendships, fragile masculinities, “pause”/“no homo”, admiring gender expressions, questioning and exploring ones sexuality, pretty routines, advice for straight men struggling with gender expression, break up glow ups

This episode of the Inner Hoe Uprising will be a discussion on sexual assault and trauma. We have placed time codes for the specific section below. Please proceed with caution. Akua & Sam are joined by Karen to discuss the process of healing from sexual assault. Bae(s) of The Week: Daniel Dae Kim, Michael Smith, Cardi B & Rashida Khanbey Hoe(s) of the Week: @HarlotofSatan, @MadameLazet, @CidVicous_13, @amadeupwife, Lattrice W & Mow Self Care Tips: View pornography that is representative of yourself Fuck That (Current Events): Sex Robots can kill us in the future, Brian Austin Green’s remarks on his son who wears dresses, children and gendered clothing, Brock Turner defined as a rapist in Criminal Justice textbook Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A discussion on healing from sexual trauma. Sub topics include: repression of traumatic memories, teachers as abusers, women as abusers, femme on femme sexual violence, childhood sexual assault, racial power dynamics, telling friends and romantic partners

Akua, Rebecca, & Sam discuss pooping on a date, cis privilege, boring men, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Sloane Stephens, Venus Williams & Madison Keys Hoe(s) of the Week: Empress Shida, Toya A, Bria T, Essenif, Lem, Duly Noted & Chill Marlowe Self Care Tips: Accept it, change it or let it go Fuck That (Current Events): Munroe Bergdorf & L’Oreal, woman gets stuck in her dates window trying to retrieve her own poop, shitting while you’re on a date, transgender women now allowed to attend Spelman, cis privilege, Kashmire Redd, Intimate Partner Violence amongst Trans Men & Women, factors that lead to disproportionate rate of domestic violence, XXXTentacion allegations of domestic violence Fuck Me (Our Lives): When you shit talk your partner on the show with out their consent, relationship remorse, a brief sam rant on boring men & a vaguely homophobic wedding Fuck You (Your Lives): To hoe or not to hoe? SPONSOR(S) Employers can post jobs on ZipRecruiter for FREE by visiting ZipRecruiter.com/I

Rebecca & Sam are joined by black nerds, Janicia & Lloyd to discuss black nerd culture, misogyny, being an ally, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Ed Skrein Hoe(s) of the Week: Jamelle D Self Care Tips: Set aside time to cry and decompress. An all femme self defense class Fuck That (Current Events): Fan grabs Cardi B’s ass without her consent and misogynists come to justify her being groped, RIT’s poorly thought out presentation on consent using Roo from Winnie the Pooh, conversations about consent and rape culture on campuses, Grapefruitting, Will & Jada, WoldStar Hip Hop Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Black Nerds or Blerds, not being accepted into nerd spaces, racism and misogyny within nerd spaces, nerd validations & credentials, nerd trauma, nerd defense mechanisms to avoid social stigma, finding a tribe of pro-black blerds, special snowflake blacks, the convergence of hip hop and comic books, using white supremacy as a tool to deal with childhood trauma, violent misogyny in internet spaces, addre

Akua & Sam are Joined by exotica dancer Fosthea to discuss the inner workings of strip clubs. Bae(s) of The Week: N’jyia Shelton & Ashlee Marie Preston Hoe(s) of the Week: Emma C, @_shampagne_ & Morgan Self Care Tips: If possible, fulfill your basic needs when you feel them Fuck That (Current Events): Sex Worker assaulted in homophobic attack, the case for decriminalizing sex work, Alaskan cops assaulting sex workers, Black Transgender woman Kiwi Herring killed by police, woman fired for having heavy periods, Multigenerational study under way to analyze LGBTQ health, & the PRIDE study Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Exotic Dancing, being a broke college student, tips & entry fees, lap dances, patrons touching dancers, all nude strip clubs, men coming just to talk to the dancers, strip club demographics, ensuring safety in the strip club, dancers who have had plastic surgery vs. those who have not, emotional stressors of dancing, taking drugs and alcohol while dancing, how stripping can effect your

Akua & Sam are joined by Money of QueerWoc to discuss the woes and glories of smashing within your network of friends: Bae(s) of The Week: Takiya Thompson & Brian Smith Hoe(s) of the Week: Ghanaqueenhq, Brenichelle, Skootiepuff, Napmaster, Arianne, Ciara & Terrence Self Care Tips: Body Scans & Progressive Muscle Relaxation Fuck That (Current Events): New insurance protections in New York for transgender patients, Texas people now forced to take out “rape insurance” for abortions, aborting disabled fetuses, ableism, pro-lifers, Pornhub & porn stars, Millennials don’t like boobs, the gentrification and appropriation of ass, man served child support subpoena in church, misogynoir & baby mamas, & myths around child support Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Smashing the homies, having sex within friend groups, having sex with your partners friends, shallow dating pools for Black Queer folks, naivety and an ain’t shit girlfriend, when your girlfriends homie hits on you, getting cheated on, stalkers, cyber

Welcome to Season 3 of the Inner Hoe Uprising! The new squad of co-hoes is announced. Bae of The Week: Chika Oranika (@oranicuhh), Domyenn of Slayer Hair Co. (@domyenn, @slayerhairco), Beyonce, Ashlee Marie Preston of Wear Your Voice Magazine (@ashleemariepreston), Rihanna, Danielle Brooks Hoe(s) of the Week: Gabriella A, Leigh Anne, Kera.Tilwe, Asha & Magical_Negress Self Care Tips: Stop being the strong black woman, It’s okay to not be okay and to let others know Fuck That (Current Events): A UK based transgender woman was locked out of her bank for sounding like a man, Man schedules 6 dates with 6 women on one night at the same venue, Lil Boosie’s post about getting his 14 year old son head from a “bad bitch” for his birthday, toxic masculinity, corrective rape, letting black children be children, having empathy for peoples experiences, talking to your kids about sex & the man sentenced to ten years in prison for accidentally shooting woman in the vagina Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Our co-Hoe i

Sam and Rob are joined by Micah to discuss dating as a trans man. Bae of The Week: Vashti Dubois of the Colored Girls Museum Hoe(s) of the Week: Berry, Meira & Sidney Self Care Tips: LilBlackLambPrints Self Care Planner Fuck That (Current Events): Trumps announcement to ban transgender people in the military, other than honorable discharge, the actual amount of military spending that goes into trans health care, denying trans people resources afforded to others, ‘don’t ask don’t tell’, Military spending on viagra Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Transmasculine Dating, navigating masculinity and patriarchy as a a Trans man, passing, men justifying catcalling, machismo, masculinity in the Philippines, femphobia, internalized transphobia, who to date when your trans and queer, where to find romantic partners as a trans man, getting misgendered by LGB people, shitty white LGB people, Finding QPOC communities, model minority, the concept of a human dildo, sex parties, queer sex parties & woke sex, pre op

Sam and Rob are joined by Shante to discuss colorism and dating within the black community. Bae of The Week: Michelle Zheng Self Care Tips: Taking time away from people & learning to not fear being alone Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Light Skin v Dark Skin & Internalized Racism, Kodak Black, Xxxtentacion, R Kelly, Neglecting an protecting little black girls, Are skin tone preferences real? Are skin tone preferences okay?, stupid stereotypes about skin tone, misogynoir, video vixens, BET Uncut, Music Videos, Kylie Jenner, Representation, Jay Versace, being bullied for being dark skin, realizing your light skin friend received more attention, resentment between skin tones, light skin privilege, light skin people not recognizing their privilege, critiquing yourself, West Indians & Africans v. Black Americans, “pretty for a dark skin girl”, oiled up melanin models, jungle fever, Black Israelites, Hoteps, fetishizing and sexualizing mixed children, passing, Oreos, “you’re not really black”, PWIs, playing th

Sam and Akua are joined by Cam Model & Anti-Fuckboy Enthusiast Crystal to discuss securing the bag as a cam girl. Bae of The Week: Beyonce & Sandra Musujusu Hoe(s) of the Week: Karina, Money, Alicia D, Janicia, Baphomet bitch, Rell, FL Classy, Madame Lazet, Cupcake Tell Em, Terrence, Mark W, Pinks, SoroSalsa Self Care Tips: Take a Mental Health Day Fuck That (Current Events): #Justice4EyrickaThompson, Transgender women in prison, woman on subway gets peed on, a call to step in when you see street harassment, woman sexually assaulted outside of church, the myth of who gets sexually assaulted, community baby shower for minority women, supporting single black mothers, it takes a village to raise a child, Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Cam Modeling and Internet Sex Work, under paying cam girls, CamSoda, StreamMate, Backpage, regular customers, selling panties, pricing, skyping with clients, sexual arousal while cam modeling, sex work while in a relationship, making videos with your boyfriend, people c

Sam and Akua are joined by self proclaimed f_ckboys Goose, KP, & Ford to talk about what it means to be a f_ckperson. Bae of The Week: Young Thug’s Charitable Act, Colin Kaepernick, The Que Dog Who Got Becky Out the Paint (@wolverineque) Hoe(s) of the Week: California Faan and Eirrac Eel Self Care Tips: Directory of Black Therapists: http://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/therapist-directory/ Fuck That (Current Events): The Canadian baby without a gender marker on their health card, gender identity, gender reveal parties, Former Surgeon Generals call for an end to “corrective” genital surgery on intersex infants Fuck It (Topic of the Day): [The Fuckboy Round Table], What is a Fuckboy, why let yourself get bamboozled, why engage in fuckboy behavior, how to enjoy yourself as a single person, socialized into being monogamist, a brief tangent on race and privilege, the privilege of being born beautiful, fuckgirls, giving fake numbers, “I’m fine”, Blac Cyna & Rob, wifing hoes, when your partner smashed

Sam and Akua are joined by Mouse Jones to discuss being a side piece. Bae of The Week: Serena Williams, Christopher Milan, Ezekiel Elliot Hoe(s) of the Week: Terietta, Elva G, Ashleigh D Self Care Tips: Cry when you need to Fuck That (Current Events): Ezekiel Elliot’s nude photoshoot, fragile masculinity, Snapchat’s new SnapMap feature & watching dick appointments play out in real time Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Being a Side Dude, actual hoes, tales from kindergarten, getting tricked on, the proper way to listen, dirty macking, messy situations, The Mouse Jones Experience, pop ups, jealousy, trying to make your side your main, taking a break, post break up closure, side chicks, and much more! Fuck Me (Our Lives): Our experiences becoming accidental side chicks Fuck You (Your Lives): The Aftermath of cheating on your boyfriend with your ex-husband. SPONSOR(S) Visit BlueApron.com/INNER to get your first THREE meals FREE RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES HeManWomanHatersClub: https://soundclou

Sam and Rob are joined by Malika to talk about soul mates and twin flames. Bae of The Week: The Mother First who is a THOT directly after Hoe of the Week: Baseboy Slim Self Care Tips: PMDD, depression and what slaying can do to help your mood Fuck That (Current Events): Park Slope Threesome gone wrong, false rape accusations, Bill Cosby’s “Town Hall”, rape culture, The Bachelor rape accusation & the drunken grey area Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Twin Flames & Soul Mates, energy eaters, turbulent relationships, men who ain’t shit, domestic violence, sex with a soulmate vs. sex with a twin flame, filthy sex, supporting men financially, paying on first dates, picturing yourself married, zodiac signs, cancers are crybabies, dick too bomb, long dick & cumming too fast Fuck Me (Our Lives): A baecation, Belize, bonding, giving and taking, having a support system, period sex, first time trying anal, anal orgasms & how to clean yourself out to prepare for anal Fuck You (Your Lives): How to build co

Sam and Rebecca are joined by Akin, Akua, & Fatima to discuss religion and sexuality. Bae(s) of The Week: China & Kenion Carter Hoe(s) of the Week: Rico, April, Johnita, Robb & Jasmine Self Care Tip(s): Take a Walk Fuck That (Current Events): The Philly “More Color More Pride” Campaign, adding black and brown to the rainbow, LGBT POCs, Whitewashing the LGBT movement, The Congressional Shooting, Steve Scalise is a bigot & Crystal Griner, the Queer Black Woman who saved his life Topic of the Day: (Religion) Yoruba, Catholicism, Islam, existential crisis, life after death, The Orishas, West African Traditions, patriarchal religions, expectations of women, questioning your religion, vegans, animal consciousness, Oshun & Beyonce, the father, the son and the Holy Spirit, Jews for Jesus, getting pregnant out of wedlock, teen pregnancy, Abortions, honor killings, rape, the rapey uncle, the Bible, the Quran, the original sin, Eve, Yemoja, Fatima, Women figures in religion, Oya, How to become Yoruba, Pil

Sam and Rebecca are joined by Deja & Tony to discuss the wonderful world of swinging. Bae of The Week: Lady Essence, Fame on Fire, & SZA Hoe(s) of the Week: Paris & Jazzie Self Care Tips: See the doctor before it’s to late Fuck That (Current Events): “Friendliest” women by state, NY women are mean, oak gall, wasp nests for vaginal tightness, holistic medicine, proposing at your best friends wedding, Chatroulette, yoni eggs, Kegel exercises & more. Topic of the Day: (Swingers) partner swapping, ethical non monogamy, swinger parties, foursomes, “the lifestyle”, soft swap, full swap, solid marital foundations, jealousy and insecurities while swinging, protected and unprotected sex, fluid bonding, online swinger communities, getting tested, communication & misunderstandings, nude beaches, comfort, taking one for the team, sanctioning sex with exes, penile envy, how to vet a couple to swing with, double dates, balancing swinging with home life, the hoe bag, single men at swinger parties, party costs