Inner Hoe Uprising

On today’s episode, Sam describes why pronouns and treating our non-binary family with care is of great importance. Then we air a gender 101  from Rob & Sam. We get into transgender identities, non binary identities, pronouns, biology, gender roles, biological sex, the animal kingdom, and much more!  Relevant Links & Notes: Merriam Webster on “they” as a singular pronoun: https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/singular-nonbinary-they The original, un-truncated version of 54 Genders or None: https://apple.co/3t8wRFM “I Said They”, Robs ep on Whoreible Decisions:  https://apple.co/2YaC4hU or https://youtu.be/LnnHyu8R2Xw  PBS Map of Diverse Gender Cultures: https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/content/two-spirits_map-html/  More IHU Episodes about Gender: Non Binary Identity w/ Arrow Fitz: https://apple.co/2q1xUf1  & Spotify: https://spoti.fi/350Spaw Intersex 101 w/ Babalwa Mtshawu:  Apple: https://apple.co/2pDVMoy  & Spotify: https://spoti.fi/37uQZHe  Two Spirit Identit

This week we’re talking about the high demand for sperm donors across the US, lesbian rabbits, punani scented candles, couples therapy but as friends, the danish kids show about a big dicked man and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YJr1wUpioW0 Self Care Tip:  Learn more about breast cancer & genetics in the Black community: https://www.instagram.com/p/CKVIPyJgFPR/ Animals do be Gay tho:  Lesbian Wabbits Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): Gwyneth Paltrow’s vagina candle exploded.  Fuck That (Currents Events): The new Danish kids TV show about a man with a large shlong. And the increased demand for sperm donors. Other points of discussion include: rape culture, eugenics.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  Disclaimer: the advice given in this segment is general advice and is in no way meant to replace or serve as the advice of a medical or mental health professional.  A listener asks for advice on salvaging a friendship.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of th

Portland has the most strip clubs per capita out of any city in the US. Portland also has severe issues with equitable work conditions when it comes to Black and indigenous sex workers. On this ep we speak about these work conditions as well as the Portland strippers and labor organizers who are leading the PDX Stripper strike — A movement that seeks to create fair working conditions for Black & Indigenous sex workers. Our guest is regional stripper award winning Cat Hollis of the Haymarket Pole Collective.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DqiDW0I9Y8g Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Minneapolis strip scene, Portland strip scene. Passing into whiteness, Hip Hop & strip culture, Racism, cultural insensitivity, stripping during the COVID 19 pandemic, the CARES ACT and erotic service providers, the stigma of digital sex work, Portland during the 2020 racial uprisings, fair labor conditions, public policy and much more!  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Scarlet (Hoe-Ta

The hoes chat about managing your time in the new year and beyond, Tech giants anti sex work pro white supremacist histories, the gen Z romantic ballad Throat Baby, a queer black feminist review of CyberPunk 2077,  PLUS using kink to work thru sexual trauma. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ALvPLSmYIpc Self Care Tip: Clear your mind and schedule deeply in the future Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): An in depth analysis of the song “Throat Baby” Fuck That (Currents Events): How Instagram and TikToks terms of service are affecting sex professionals Ass Media (Media Reviews): A review of the action role playing game CyberPunk 2077  Glitchy game play, shady exploitative work practices, deceptively baiting non binary and trans people to buy the game, lazy racial and ethnic tropes and more!  Fuck You (Your Lives): Advice on dealing with sexual trauma related PTSD Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Angela L(Giving out L’s), Aurien W ( an AUROAA ?! ), John P (Ja

On today’s episode What would you do if a test could scientifically locate your SOULMATE. That’s the premise of AMC’s latest sci fi anthology series from one of the brains that brought you Black Mirror. This week two futuristic hoes are gonna review that series and discuss some themes like compulsory monogamy, faith, psychopathy, and if the grass is really greener on the other side.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YPZ4vGGObSc  Self Care Tip: Get the conversation started at your VIRTUAL dinner tables this year and acknowledge what stolen land you’re living on. https://native-land.ca/  Directory of Indigenous mutual aid groups: https://www.indigenousmutualaid.org/directory/  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Anna T(Matilda), Glad Rags, Slutty Ghost, Britt (Marling), Kesha (Ke$ha, wake up in the mornin feelin like p diddy), Pole Dancer PhD, Kbertrand92 HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that

We’re talking all about reproductive rights. Specifically the United States history of Eugenics and sterilization abuse, Climate Change and negative birth outcomes for marginalized people, and the myth of "over population." Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/czxrs6tDCSM Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Points of discussion include Eugenics, scientific racism and sterilization abuse in the United States;  climate change,  extreme temperatures, air pollution, Wildfires, flooding, hurricanes, environmental racism, and negative birthing outcomes; the intersection of Black reproductive justice and climate change; “Planet of the Humans,” the myth (and racist dog whistle) of over population and resource scarcity.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU CONTENT WARN

The non monogamous homies, the fight for LGBTQ Philly Foster parents rights, a discussion of adopting and fostering, 3 parent families, very queer families, single parenting and more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/P7g2pS809uE Bae of the Week: Ruby B Johnson and the homies at Poly Dallas Millennium  Fuck That (Currents Events): The Supreme Court Case reviewing LGBTQ foster parent rights in Philly Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  The hoes talk about what makes one ready to be a foster parent & how to create LGBTQ affirming foster homes.  Ass Media: A Three Parent Family article in The Atlantic and “9 Months with Courtney Cox” Fuck You (Your Lives): Single Parent by choice affirmations Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: GQPersephone (Persephone) & Anna T (Matilda) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy onli

How and why to get active locally in your community, People are STILL f*ckin but STD rates have taken a nose dive, a review and reminisce session over the UPN classic Girlfriends and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SVDDgUDrBAI Self Care Tip: How and why to get active locally Fuck That (Currents Events): The Amount of sex people are having remains consistent and yet STD rates are dropping. We talk about why the is an the social implications of that.  A$$ Media (Content Reviews): Today we review Mara Brock Akil’s early 2000s classic Girlfriends Points of Discussion Include: Sitcom Characters being mean AF, Stereotypes about Black women, colorism, mixed race, Pam & Martin, internet dating, platonic love, aged jokes, pregnancy, marriage, sex addiction, adultery and more Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Ryan (Ryan Pro Hoe Fa Sho), Mariel (Dreyfus), Aïda J (AIDA, AIDA), Heather H (Triple H), Philip M (Uncle Phill Fa Real)  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprisi

Safe happy hoe-lidays, the self proclaimed badly behaved gay Nigerian fighting to #endSARS, Queer antagonistic Egyptian police departments, Lesbian and Gay Penguin babies, Horror films about killer weaves and sex demons, a little bisexual insecurity, and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Jkj-wEb60Sg Self Care Tip: How to Make the Holidays Special Bae of the Week: Matthew Blaise @matthew.blaise Fuck That (Currents Events): Egyptian police are targeting LGBTQ folks using dating apps, a bit on #EndSARS #EndSWAT, and zoo’s with baby stealing gay penguins A$$ Media (Content Reviews): A cute review of Abby (1974) and Bad Hair (2020) Fuck You (Your Lives): A bisexual listener is unsure why their fantasies all revolve around cis men Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Christine M (Braithwhite), Jack S (Kernel), Wendy N (Blow trees), Amanda (The Wall), Tina L(Mango), Jessie M (Springfield), l$fins HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conv

Movin dat body during the 2nd wave, very dope research about black girls sexual health and substance abuse, fucking roommates during the pandemic, who else is fuckin and a possible HSV1 cure.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/t1pYkqYuwZM Self Care Tip: Some ideas on moving your body during the pandemic and a reminder to do body scans. Fuck That (Currents Events): Gene editing may cure Herpes Simplex Virus 1 and who all is having sex during the pandemic according to Match.com Fuck You (Your Lives): 6 stories of non-romantic roommates who began sexual relationships in quarantine Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Jordyn M(Geordie Shore), Allonda D(Angelica Pickles), Britney B (AYTO)  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Check out The Salon with LaLa Milan right now in Stitcher, Apple, or your favorite podcast app and make sure to subscribe. RELEVANT LI

The most magical of all dykes, sex tourism in Africa, #WINTERISCUMMING and how to prepare for it, moving in with a partner, abuse in the era of ebola and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gEV4LhmWLSo Self Care Tip: Some tips to help you prep for another isolated winter in the era of dat rona Bae of the Week: @majic.dyke on Instagram Fuck That (Currents Events): White European women are driving sex tourism in Gambia & women in the DRC are calling out abuse at the hands of WHO and NGO workers during the ebola outbreak of 2018-2020 Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rebecca its shacking up with her partner! Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: mARTin, Dabia  (look at my DAB), Eva B (Top Model Divaa), onyx mommy, Xahree (XAH), Shameless Curves M, Ayana (may you tell her I say hi), & lanalove122 HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Make sensuality a part of

The importance of Black Women's stories, our fav 1970s era sex worker, stanning bad binches, reproductive rights in San Francisco, LGBTQ seniors, boring yt films,  a whirlwinds of a pandemic romance and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SWmIjT8Ks9k Self Care Tip: Immerse yourself in the stories of Black women (and pay and support them!) Bae of the Week: Diamond Stylz, Janina Jeff, and Estephanie and Lina of Bag Ladiez Podcast Fuck That (Currents Events): San Francisco’s new research study and program that grants Black and Pacific Islander birthing parents $1,000 a month DC lacks funds to implement Washington DCs new LGBTQ seniors protections bill Ass Media (Media Reviews): A review of the film Elisa y Marcela, all about Spain first same sex marriage couple Fuck You (Your Lives): A tale of love and plot twists within a WLW pandemic romance. Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Chai P (Tea), tori Johnson-inimgba (Diva), Tina L (Mango), Mchillydog (MadHelpful),

The hoes chat about sex budgets! WTF is that and how do you create one. THEN. Single parenting. What are the societal, financial, romantic factors to consider when you take the plunge into child rearing solo. And much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4cTZThYw7NU Self Care Tip: For to create a budget and then specifically, how to create a sex budget Fu*k It (Topic of the Day): A deep dive conversation on the choice to become a single parent. Points of discussion include: Artificial insemination, adoption, family planning, finances, reproductive rights, race, class, community, “it takes a village,” partnering, ableism and more! Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Tia Not Tamera, Shirley Chisholm, Em Mc (E = MC^2), Bishara P (Me and my nggas/nakers tryna get it ya Bish) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online

On this episode our resident agender firefighter speaks on gender reveal party fires, quit charging LGBTQ people with sex crimes just for being queer, a discussion on dating top secret LIARS, plus doing the work to heal trauma and discussion of the book “The Body Keeps the Score”.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/zLyXu3LZ9Hs Fuck That (Currents Events): A discussion on gender reveal parties, the history and creator of gender reveals, trans exclusionary feminism, gender stereotypes, transphobia, intersexuality, patriarchy, masculinity & more! Plus, California’s revised law regarding sex offender registry and LGBTQ folks. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob talks about doing the work to heal trauma and the book “The Body Keeps the Score” Fuck You (Your Lives): Have you ever dated a “top secret” mother fcker?  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Jess John (J Jonah Jameson), Rachel Charlene Lewis (Charlene Collard Green), Chef Steph (@highlyfavored_steph), Ben H (Big Ben) HA

This episode we’re talking about phallus meat delicacies, finding Black friendship as a chronic loner,  suicide prevention month, and an understated love story about an undocumented Filipino trans caretaker in Brooklyn.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q_LdnJaBgUk Self Care Tip: Akua gives a community and collective care reminder for suicide prevention month Fuck That (Currents Events): A woman finds what she believes is a penis in her bean stew. Plus we talk all about genitalia delicacies from all over the world.  A$$ Media (Film Reviews): Sam reviews Lingua Franca, an understated love story that deals with themes of culture, immigration, gender, aging, addiction and much more. Fuck You (Your Lives): Help! I’m a queer Black woman having trouble befriending other queer Black women.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: ChloTownBrown and Ticole S (aka Green Thumb) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let oth

This episode we’re getting into our futuristic hoe bags and getting into biohacking 4 sex. Today we’re touching on aspects like nootropics to boost libido, cyborg clitorises, access in marginalized communities, ability, gender affirming hormone therapy, extra limbs for play time and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ovAITUX62U4 Self Care Tip: Grief podcast playlist via Berry: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/30HHeLABxCoCXhG4FgkezV Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  The hoes dive into biohacking in the realm of sex. Biohacking is an umbrella term for DIY citizen science biology that aims to improve human life . And it turns out there’s a bunch of overlap between biohacking and sex.  Some points of discussion include:  Nootropics, adaptagens, Kink Biopunk, transhumanism, biopunk, designer drugs, tech implants, ableism,  body modification, libido, stamina, gender affirming hormones, cyborgs and much more! Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rebecca and Sam tell you what cyborg sex means to the,  Love &am

The splendor of merging self love and artistic ventures, how mattress sex can get you paid, gene edited babies, what happens when white women tell stories about Black women’s traumatic histories, and a review of the documentary "You Belong to Me: Race, Sex, and Murder in the South" Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/y1xhuTUL4RA Self Care Tip:  Sam talks about the benefits of centering your own likeness in your art.  Fuck That (Currents Events): The new study that pays “couples” $3000 to have sex on 8 different Mattresses Plus, According to one study men are more likely to be cool with gene edited children, but why?  A$$ Media (Media Reviews): Sam reviews You Belong to Me: Race, Sex, and Murder in the South — a documentary about a prominent Black woman who killed a white doctor in Florida after suffering years of sexual abuse at his hands in 1952. Despite abundant evidence that she was acting in self-defence, a jury found her guilty and sentenced her to death. Love & Light to our Hoes of the W

New Relationship Energy, what is it, how does it drive your budding romance and what impacts it can have on the rest of your life, PLUS have you got a good morning routine? We’ll were gonna talk you thru developing one AND we answer the age old question “Where is the Ass in 2020”? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9i-6Xqjsel8 Self Care Tip: Everything you need to know to set up a good morning routine Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Rodecka, a self proclaimed serial monogamist unpacks the concept of “New Relationship Energy” Points of discussion include: neurochemistry, polyamory, limerence, anthropology, old relationship energy, infidelity, trauma, grief, “The Body Keeps the Score” and much more! Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener named Melahoe declares all men aged 30-60 trash and questions “Where is the Ass in 2020?” Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Dontrè H (MONTRAY), Berry (Berry, aka the goat, aka the podcast godcast), Josephina O (JOEY! Aka Hunter), D (Dom), Jamesh

The beauty of interlocking genitals, hobbies for hoes, a review of a film all about a middle aged leaving the bullshit behind to find herself, trying times as a Black femme in the very white Southwestern United states, and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_bUq9V47ESQ Self Care Tip: Get a Hobby Hoe!  Fuck That (Currents Events): The new pandemic phenomenon of UK couples getting plastic surgery in order to “interlock” their genitals for better sex.  Topics: interlocking genitals, Vaginal rejuvenation, the husband stitch, human alteration, futurism Ass Media (Media Reviews): A review of the Netflix film “Juanita” about a middle aged Black Woman who leaves home to find herself and stumbles upon a community of indigenous folks in Butte, Montana.  Fuck You (Your Lives): The hoes from Phoenix, Arizona are fed up! A listener writes in with advice for PHX based Black femmes in search of community.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Camillion Hair, Aunt Tawiwi an

The beauty of modern medicine and penis arms, The Black Sex Workers Liberation Rally in NYC, Shadow work and self acceptance, poly communities, LSD, trying times as a Black femme is a very white Southwestern United states and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3F8-hJ6OrcE Self Care Tip: Practice shadow work Fuck That (Currents Events): An English Man has a new penis grown on his arm after losing his to sepsis. & The Black Sex Workers Rally for Liberation  & info about the Walking while Trans Ban.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam is asking for grace. Rodecka recounts her acid trip from heaven (or hell) and describes how it shifted her polyam perspective Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Julie V (Julezy V), Philip M (PhilipDelphia), Korey W (Koriqua koriquaaaa), Angie T (Big Ang) Amethyst C(Amethyst Facet-5 Cut-8XM), Paws and Pothos, Jasmine R (Regal J) Amanda (The Amanda Show), Crystal G(Crystal Gem) Shammara L  (ShamWOW), Katie W (Knock on Katie), Sonya J