Inner Hoe Uprising

We answer some of your burning questions about the Inner Hoe Uprising podcast. Some questions include: How can we all continue being hoes with Covid going on? How has it been navigating your respective friendship dynamics while recording a show together? Did any of you have a fascinating mind blowing make you wanna holler s*xual experience on your getaways or just this summer? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2zfH_jdDs3g HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Remember you can start living a happier life today with Betterhelp by using code IHU for 10% off your first month.  You can also use code IHU for 15% off of some very pleasurable Dame products site wide.  Lastly, you can Stay fresh, stay clean with Native by going to Native Deo dot com slash uprising, or use promo code uprising at checkout, and get twenty percent off your first order WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY

This episode —  what happens when you don’t get sex ed, also -- Queer Plantonic Partnerships and Romantic Friendships -- what the heck are those? PLUS  the Supreme Court ruled on a pretty big case regarding Queer couples and their rights to foster. What was the court’s decision and what does it mean for the country? We getting into it all that and more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fYYsk2kQiY Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness):  Someones faith in cishet sex is a little misguided, the unfortunate nature of the hashtag #MasculinitySaturday, and one young person’s cute menstruation misconception  Fuck That (Currents Events)/ PoliD*CKZ: An update on the Case of Chrystul Kizer - a young sex trafficking victim who allegedly killed her abuser. And an update on Fulton v. Philadelphia —  the Supreme Court case about LGBTQ Parents and their rights to foster  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Queer Platonic relationships, Romantic Partnerships, Best Friend Spouses and the nebulous nature of what it m

It’s pride month -- and we gotta talk about some gay  animals. We’re also getting into our bae of the week -- a tennis baddie not named Naomi or Serena who aired out the clip recently. You’ll learn about why your balls (if you have them) are similar to your brain. Plus an IHU breakup has occurred!  Find out who and what happened.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6S7drJxISfs Animals do be Gay tho:  There are 130 species of birds that display homosexual behavior. We talk about a few of them. Fuck That (Currents Events): A recent study has found some unexpected similarities between the balls and the brains.  Bae of the Week/A** Media: We talk about tennis, myths people come up with on the internet, and praise this weeks bae pro tennis player, Taylor Townsend Fuck Me (Our Lives): In under a week — a cohoe has faced a break up.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Kink health, Qink Conversation, MoWill, Terrance S  (S*x) & mads HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Po

Extreme baddie Vilissa Thompson, joins us  to talk all about the sexual liberation journey of a Black disabled woman, K*nk and navigating the lifestyle as both an LG and a Domme, the journey transitioning from a social worker to s*x therapist and so much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/skgStwQMWfA Points of discussion include: sex ed as a disabled youth, LGs v brats, the nuance of being LG and disabled, Inspiration porn, race and gender in domming, Dom red and green flags,  match making, pro domming, phone sex, foot fetish, reducing stigma and harm for sex workers with disability, balancing vanilla and sex work jobs, the path to becoming a sex therapist, social work v therapy   HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU FIND VILISSA ON THE WEB Websi

This episode we’re talking about how to keep your head above water in many polyamorous relationships. We’re also talking about ball ripped dild*s, poppin s*x toy parties, and a lack of pleasurable s*xual sensation in people with cl*t. PLUS -- ANOTHER one of us is processing their demis*xuality. Find out who and whats been going on. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/O57qtAgzOIM Self Care Tip:  Having trouble with time management in your poly relationships? Rebecca’s got a calendar based self care tip.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  Disclaimer: the advice given in this segment is general advice and is in no way meant to replace or serve as the advice of a medical or mental health professional.  Letter 1: Help! My Keratin Pearls cause a lack of sexual sensation and I am concerned about how to navigate this with potential partners. Letter 2: Have you ever seen the b*lls rip off a dild*? Plus, how do I make my s*x toy party popping? Fuck Me (Our Lives): One of the cohoes comes to terms with their demisex

We’re reviewing the worst (and maybe the best?) of the ridiculousness that the internet has to offer in the realm of sex, love, and dating. Everything from sexy robots, thirsty motherfuckers talking to themselves in the DMs, condoms twice used and much more.  Youtube: https://youtu.be/KtdVM3ao_K8 Fuck is this?! (ridiculousness):  Will pole working robots replace us, people who talk to themselves in your DMs, wearing the same outfit as your date, the call to bring back tonic masculinity, a new name for the LGBTQ community, men who have fake careers to get sex, sensual massages, odd translations, threesomes, herpes. Myths, desperation and much more.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Sarah (Geechee Gal Griot), Belle (Cunninghast), Lela B (All info for the BEA)  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Sarah’s podcast Workin Our Roots: https://www

This episode is allll about play parties. For those who aren’t familiar with the term a play party is a social gathering where m*ther f*ckers do be fucking (if they want). But there's a lot more to it than that. Today we’ll be talking about play party etiquette, how to find play parties, what to expect, conversations around consent, wild stories and much more!    Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hzBPd2aGyRU Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Rodecka ( a play party enthusiast) guides us thru play parties 101. Topics of discussion include:  Gender binary pricing models, queerness, polyam, vetting, etiquette, dos and donts, cuddle parties, soft and hard swaps, consent, the politics of desirability, privacy, dress codes, themes, kink, vaccines, safer sex practices, drugs and alcohol & much more!  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Rebekah L (the real Rebekah), Ophelia K (OK-K-K-AYYYYYY) & all of the hoemies who reached out and wished condolences for the recent passing of our

This week we celebrate the life of our homie and brilliant lesbian luminary Nikeeta Slade! Then we talk about  probiotics and the pum pum, the diagnoses of a rare mood disorder, what it looks like to have a solar AKA hoelar return, and a trip to “twang land” Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RMcj43RwnDo Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness):  A trip to “twangland” plus a conversation on sex and hygiene  Self Care Tip: Akua talks about her journey using pro bionics to supplement her vaginal and mental health. We also talk a bit about gender neutral marketing.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Akua is in a hoe-lar return! She speaks about a diagnoses of cyclothymia, the wonders of anti depressants, the linkage between food and mental health, re-entering the dating world as a demisexual, depressive episodes trigged by ghosting, “unconditional love” and much more.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Sam E (Name-isis), Dallas H (Stripped Away), Hex (Slutty Ghost), Rome (Jeromes in

This week we’re joined by a member of generation (se)X to all about growing up as a “fast” black girl in the 1980s, discovering sexual autonomy and kink at 50+, middle age f*ckboys, sexless marriages, infidelity, words of wisdom to millennials and get Z and much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s1XrNZZZfbc Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Our guest Melissa aka Melahoe joins us to talk all things sex, love, and dating as a Black woman a part of generation X Points of discussion include: Adoption, Ancestry (dot) com, secret families, fibroids, reproductive health, forced & coerced sterilizations of black women, medical mistreatment of young black girls, bodily autonomy, true romance magazines, contraceptive, birth control sponge, dating as a teen parent in the 80s, 90s dating for black women, takes a village, AIDs epidemic, marital sex issues, an affair, infidelity, couples therapy, single motherhood, tying your tubes, paternalistic gynecologist,  sexual exploration and and your agency  post 50, 

We’re talking alllll about cannabis, food, pleasure and liberation with our guest Chef Steph.  Things like — how does weed effect your dating life, herbal self care tips, cannabis meals to cook for bae, dating as a heavy weed user, Black farm to table communities, mass incarceration,  and much more!  Youtube: https://youtu.be/cpGb_GHJrMA Self Care Tip: Adding herbs to your weed or just ingesting herbs for anxiety and other reasons  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  We’re joined by cannabis user and chef Steph to talk all things food, pleasure, herbs and liberation. Points of discussion include Cannabis , cooking, black women & the history of labor, growing, pleasure, being black chef, white supremacy in the culinary world, the legalization of marijuana black folks policing and incarceration, exploitation of blackness for profit, black liberation & cannabis, black farm to table communities, Valentines Day, sensuality & cooking, the sensory experience of food, dating as a heavy cannabis user, da

The hoes are talking all about the science of hormones, trans affirming health care, and the big ol white supremacist, patriarchal, capitalist, conspiracy to stamp out trans folks in the United states PLUS what you can do to stop it.  Watch on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/h2hYhGmYoS8 PoliDicks (Politics): 2021 is a Record Year For Anti-Transgender Legislation, we talk about why this is happening and what you can do.  Topics of discussion include: Group think, misinformation, the conservative right, anti trans bills & more  Fuck It (Topic of the Day): We talk about the science of hormones, puberty blockers and how trans affirming health care saves lives Topics of discussion include: Hormones, puberty blockers, credible sources, how cis, trans and intersex youth use puberty blockers, cross hormone therapy, gender affirming health care, non binary people & team sports  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Katrina B (Five),  Ryan L (Deadpool), Susanna M (Montgomery)

On this episode --  background checks for Tinder dates,  couples therapy, who pays for the 3rd wheels meal, s*men on the moon, sensual fantasies, the end of the world, post pandemic polyamory & much more.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/j_ludt9EmDE  Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): We answer the question “who pays for your 3rd wheels meal” and chant down Twitter gender wars.  Fuck That (Currents Events): Tinder is partnering to bring background checks to the app: We talk about dating app safety, tinder background checks, what does privacy look like in online dating. Plus, some scientists hope to send sperm and ova to the moon. We talk about Noah’s  ark, sperm bank on the moon, reproductive bank on the moon, human seed vault, cryogenics, the end of the world, climate change, habitable planets & more Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob reflects on dating as a first responder during a pandemic, navigating social media with coworkers, and a steamy piece they wrote for Patron eyes only 

This episode we’re talking all about living with a hormonal condition that  affects  7–10%  of people who menstruate — PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome. We’re answering -- what is it, how do you know you might have it, how societal oppression interacts with some of the conditions, symptoms and much more!   Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/E5-nkoC_354  F*k It (Topic of the Day):  Our guest this week Sam T joins us to tell us all about living with PCOS. Some topics include:  PCOS and Sex drive, PCOS symptoms, hair, weight, menstruating, pregnancy, fertility, cystic acne, birth control, inattentive gynecologists,  insulin resistance  and sugary foods, humanity centered health care, metformin, holistic treatment, body image, self love, family planning, summer 2021 and much more HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Sam T’s instagram @sam.cam._ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE

This week Sam hosts solo all about, the Atlanta massacre targeting Asian massage parlors, an explainer about race, gender, fetishization, sex work, and law enforcement and how that all ties into the massacre, & an ass media documentary review about some very vulgar show girls. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7yUEUYt0BeM Fuck That (Currents Events): The Atlanta massacre and intersections on race, gender & sex work.  Ass Media (Media Reviews): The Show Girls of Pakistan Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Quinn (HOE-genfyndorfer) & Bass-on CONTENT WARNING(S): This episode will heavily discuss violence against ex workers and the Atlanta massacre RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Support the Victim's Families: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/asian-america/efforts-support-families-atlanta-s-shooting-victims-are-ongoing-here-n1261764 Links Referred to in this episode: https://www.usnews.com/news/world/articles/2021-03-18/stigmas-on-race-gender-and-sex-overlap-in-atlant

The hoes chat about 1 year pandemic anni self care, one mans vendetta against urinary health, the anti capitalist anti violence origins of International Women’s Day, Savage Fenty’s Newest and Littlest bad btch, non binary and women fire fighters,  the science of ASMR p*rn & much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hJj8w0DgIcQ Self Care Tip: Sam gives some advice who are feeling bad and good as we head toward vaccination in the US.  Bae of the Week: @AyeThatsMera on Instagram Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): One man on twitter and his vendetta against urinary health.  Fuck That (Currents Events): We contextualize International Womens Day in the pandemic and check out how women all over the globe celebrated the holiday this year. Plus Rob reflects on what International Womens Day means to them as a   non binary person. Ass Media (Media Reviews): Rob talks about the science of ASMR and reviews an ASMR p*rn.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Corey

Akua shares her parenting journey. Everything from teen motherhood, raising a special needs child, finding the balance between parenting and self, dating as a mom, a homophobic baby daddy and much more. Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ZeQMlf0WPms  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  A listener wrote in asking for Akua to share her parenting journey so we did just that! Points of discussion include:  Pre c*m, sex education, poor boundaries, coercive sex, coitus interruptus, infrequent periods, PCOS, teen pregnancy, pregnancy symptoms, surprise pregnancy, African parents, breast feeding, aqueductal stenosis, Hydrocephalus, cerebral palsy, absent baby daddies, dating while parenting, the infamous crib story, finding the balance between parenting and self, sex education, gender education, consent conversations, homophobic baby daddy, Tik Tok and much more!  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Sonya F (i,Sonya), Nikko D (Nikki da D),  Kaysie Q (Jollof), Tanya B - iRobot, NaturalCurl B

This episode we’re talking all about sex, love, and dating as a Black, fat, femme in the southwestern United States. Plus were getting into cummunity organizing, intersectional feminism, academia, hoe meals and much more with our guest Karlyn Bradley.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k1UmruOQ6Jk Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  We interview Karlyn Bradley all about community organizing, the southwest, being a Black fat femme, intersectional feminism, academia, hoe meals and much more! Points of discussion include community organizing, campus organizing, Black Intersectional feminist politics, being a Black fat femme in the Southwest, coded fat phobia, dating profiles,  fat fetishization, femme phobia, femme erasure, centering pleasure, familiar pronouns, Bottom anxiety, spitting on d*ck can be awkward, ghosting bigots, dating as a community organizer, the best hoe meals, hot takes on Avatar: The Legend of Korra, & more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on

The hoes are talking all about bipolar disorder. Everything from living with it, how it can show up in your sex, love, & dating life, debunking stereotypes, how one of us on this here podcast came to be diagnosed and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/L4lS8FtHu2I Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  The science of bipolar disorder. Specific points include: The kinds of bipolar disorder, myths about bipolar disorder, symptoms, what manic and depressive episodes might look like, treatment and how living with bipolar can impact ones sex, love, and dating life.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rebecca speaks about how living with bipolar disorder has impacted her relationships.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Everyone who supported Rodicky!  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  CONTENT WARNING(S) Discussion of suicidal ideation:  48:14 - 1:02:00 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Dep

On this episode ya'll are all” deadass this” and “facts, b” that -- but really, what was it like to grow up in NYC. Particularly,  what was it like to grow into a sexual being in NYC?! Today, we’re talking all about sex, love, and dating as early adolescents and taking a look at a Netflix teen drama that claims to spill the real tea on youth in the big apple.  Youtube: https://youtu.be/eORTY2aJ1SA We review the Brooklyn based teen drama Grand Army and reflect on our own experiences as high schoolers. Topics include: Poverty prn, placing racist narratives on kids, unempathetic teachers, college acceptance papers and trauma porn, being outed, “casual” homophobia, the school to prison pipeline, sex education & pleasure, rape culture and consent  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Charieke R (Tasha Mack),  m w (em Dub), & Cecilia  (Aroacewithbadknees) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that y

The hoes chat about tart and stank asses, tart and stank transphobes, embarking on an adventure into abstinence, paternalistic gynecologists and much more! Don’t Fuck with me: Rob discusses being on Whoreible Decisions podcast.  They unpack things like colorism, non-binary transphobia, the safety in passing as cis in white male spaces, silencing & more.  Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): A twitter user hypothesizes that large butts are both “tart” and “stank” Fuck You (Your Lives):  A listener writes in for advice on how to stay in touch with their sensual side whilst taking a period of abstaining from sex. Plus advice on how to attract better matches on your  dating app profiles Fuck Me (Our Lives): Akua realizes that her gynecologist’s paternalism has deterred her from regular doctors appointments. Plus PAP smear etiquette, and a possible PCOS diagnosis. Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: Ariyanna  (Walter), Taylor P (Barker), Kitty R, Montray, Summer O (T