My Life My Choice

Many of us lament about what we are lacking or wishing for in our lives, but how badly do we want it? Today we I will share a fable that many of you may have heard before. Using the moral of this story or metaphor and applying it to your own life will give you a good indication of how bad you want it?

Should I ask a psychic? Can psychics really give information that can help with your decision making? There are many factors to weigh…join us as we discuss our views on the benefits of mediums, tarot card, divination cards etc.

We have been indoctrinated socially, religiously, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically psychologically etc, to believe that having the desire for plenty is wrong. Well, it's not wrong to desire plenty. In fact, it's part of our spiritual DNA. However, there is a spiritual caveat that is attached to having plenty. All of the wealthiest and most prosperous people in life understand this Universal law and live within this law. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the intricacies whether the desire for plenty is wrong.

One of the hardest and most harmful traits we humans possess is our inability to ?LET GO? of things of the past. Things that can no longer support us in the direction in which we want to go. By holding on to that, which needs to be buried; because it's dead, causes untold havoc in our lives. For a seed to grow into a plant, the seed must be transformed. It must shed its former self…it must die to what it was to become plant that it is destine to be. You must die to the old, so that you can live in the now which is your destiny. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we delved into understanding the need to die before you can live.

Today’s show is a review of the last 6 months looking at what we now have in our Golden Tool Box and how these spiritual tools can and will help us.  We are also going to look at creating your possibilities in the next 12 months.    For the month of August we’ll be airing reruns of My Life My Choice and will return live Wednesday September 3 2014 at the same time.  Thank you for your support and taking the time to make us a part of your choice making experience…it means more than I can say. Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the last 2 quarters to see how far we’ve come.

One of the hardest and most harmful traits we humans possess is our inability to “LET GO” of things of the past.  Things that can no longer support us in the direction in which we want to go.  By holding on to that, which needs to be buried; because it’s dead, causes untold havoc in our lives.  For a seed to grow into a plant, the seed must be transformed.  It must shed its former self…it must die to what it was to become plant that it is destine to be.  You must die to the old, so that you can live in the now which is your destiny.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we delved into understanding the need to die before you can live.

Creating compromise in your life can be a challenge when you don’t understand the art of communication.  And communicating is an art with a key element that must be present for successful communication.  We all have our unique style of communicating, but if it’s not getting you what you want, then perhaps you need to look at how you are getting your message across.  There are many factors that are in play when you are communicating; clarity, picking your time, choosing your words etc.  However, without the foundational understanding of this key element, your communication style will always be risky at best, totally misunderstood at worst.    Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we delved into understanding the key element that allows you to communicate effectively.

You don’t only eat food for nutrition, but you literally eat your words and thoughts too.  This tiny little fact is overlooked by millions of people.  And as a result of this oversight, people experience any and every unwanted human condition that you can think of.   You are fed by two streams of consciousness that originate from the ONE stream.   (a) The external, which is a kind of feedback that is given to us via our experiences.  (b) The internal mind and or subconscious mind, which creates through choice the experiences that you have. (c) The originator or governing body, which all things are fed from…God or The Source or the one stream. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore what this means to you and your family.

In today’s episode of "My Life My Choice" we are going to be talking about DARK issues that can, will and DO impact your choice making process.  And as a result of that how you choose to live your life and how you may be effected.    We’ll be looking at a variety of different topics, which includes, but is not limited to the state of the food industry, nutritional value of food, feeding the mind through the body, education, health and healing industry, creating wealth, your intuitive abilities and much more. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore these subjects and more

As you move through life it’s really important to know what you want.  If you don’t know what you are wanting for you, then who should?  This is one of the biggest problems that I see people facing on a daily bases.  Authenticity in what they want for themselves, verse what is consider the right thing to do.  If you have found yourself trapped in this conundrum, finding your way out is as simple as having a truthful conversation with self.  Sometimes it doesn’t mean anything drastic has to take place, but a shift of your view finder lens maybe all that is needed, for you to find out what you want for your life. Join m, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at you and know what you want.

We drink it.  We cook with it, bathe in it, clean with it.  We even carry our unborn babies in it.  In fact, nothing on earth can live without it.  Water, also known as H20 has within its self possesses the physical power to create what you want in life - from wealth to health and everything in between.  The ancients wise ones, metaphysicians, priest and priestess have know this fact, yet this knowledge has not been passed on through the ages…until now! Join m, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we take a look at water and the powerful role in plays in your life

One of most the underutilized tools in your spiritual tool box is your intuition.  The most amazing thing is that your intuition is NEVER EVER WRONG!  How can listening to yourself, which is your higher self, get any better than this?  To never be wrong!  Your intuition has the ability to see life from a global perspective, which gives it an advantage over your emotional mind.  Your intuitive mind speak with you continuously throughout the day…it is always touching bases with you especially when you have to make a choice.  And as everything that we do in life starts out with a choice…your intuition never shuts up.  It’s talking to you incessantly.  But are you listening?  Are you afraid to act on intuits?  Are you wanting to know !00% if it’s your intuition speaking or something else? Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore your intuition.

We can sometime find ourselves living in make believe world that truly is a self created illusion showing us what we don’t want.  Yet we choose to live as if the illusion is what we do want.  Freeing yourself so that you can live the life that you want to live is the solution. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we bring definition to defining what you want in life.

Definition means to make clear.  So, unless you define what you imagine you want to bring into your life, will get the undefined version of what it is that you imagining.  It’s important to define what you want.  Definition brings clarity. This will enable you to create a pathway…where there isn’t one…for you to achieve your goals and desires. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we bring definition to defining what you want in life.

Imagine That! The most powerful tool that you possess in your spiritual tool box is your imagination.  It has been said that the imagination is the scissors of the mind ever cutting, creating and manifesting your thoughts.  For a variety of reasons you have been encouraged not to use your imagination to explore self and what self is wanting with the intention of creating or manifesting it.  Your imagination is the key to you getting what you want in life.  Imagine that!   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore your imagination.

Did you know that you can create an experiment to see the power of your spoken words, intentions, thoughts and actions?   Well, we did just that and today we’ll discuss the exciting results of our 30 day rice and water experiment into the power of our spoken word.  Our adaptation of Dr. Masaru Emoto’s work into the power of water provided the perfect vehicle to conduct this powerful experiment.  This is an easy experiment that you can do for yourself or with a group.  It is also a wonderful learning tool to illustrate to children and teens what their words are capable of. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we delved words water rice and you.

There are many things that we can do to positively support ourselves as we go through life, but by far one of the most beneficial is to consciously choose to meditate on a daily, if not that, then a regular basis.  Meditation allows you to communicate with yourself at the deepest spiritual/human level possible.  It is the key to consciously forging your success.  There are many type so meditation and today well look at both the common and uncommon techniques. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we delved into the techniques and benefits of meditation.

One of the most painful things that we can experience is that profound sense of loss of someone we love.  These feelings also extended to places and things.  There is a fundamental reason why things flow into our lives and flow out.  Understanding this and applying this can literally be the difference between life and death. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore what the seasons and reason and the flow of life means.

As a spiritual being havin a human moment your life is a blend of both human emotions and spiritual understanding.  How you feel emotionally/mentally will let you know where you are spiritually.  Your spiritual thermometer is letting you know where you stand in relation to yourself and in relationship with yourself.  Understanding you is governed by understanding the nuance of the above statement in relations to self and in relationship with self. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore what your spiritual thermometer is telling you.

Transmuting your life is all about your willingness, your courage, passion, desire and belief that by choosing to place yourself into the fiery furnace of life you will emerge as tempered steel.  Transmutation is about the evolution of self, it’s not about change.  Today we’ll discuss the difference between transmutation and change and how to transmute your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we discuss what it means to transmute your life.