My Life My Choice

What does your ability to choose for yourself mean to you?  Because choice is as intrinsic to us as breathing, we don’t think of what our ability to make choices in the best interest of self means.  What value do you place on your power of conscious choice?  Looking deeper to get a clearer understanding about the role your choice making process plays in your life, puts you on the fast track to creating the life that you want to live.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we delve into further into choices and what it means to us.

Everything in life, your life, my life, our lives has originated out of the Universal Supply. The Universal Supply is a store house that is available to all  things in creation.   In order for you to access what you need from the Universal Supply, which is there for you to use, you have to make a choice.  Choice is the key to accessing the Universal Abundance, which is yours.  Choice is like a debit or credit card or a check.  Without it you have no access to your funds. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and holistic life coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at choice and the role it plays in your life.

 "When one door closes, another one or window opens!"   2014! What an awesome year it has been.  So much has happened, the joys and pains of this thing we call life.  We’ve said our farewell to loved ones, family and friends.  And hello to the new additions, who show us, in no uncertain terms that until we choose otherwise, the existence we have come to call life will continue on.   And that birth and death are synonymous with life and living.  So whether you consider what has happened to you in 2014 to be good or bad, devastating or not, know that you have grown in spirit.  Your soul has stretched to accommodate your growth and will establish, should you choose a strong foundation upon which to build 2015. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at what has gone and what has yet to come.

The holiday season is filled with people exchanging gifts. Good vibes.  Happy times, peace to all men.   Like the next person, I love to receive presents.  Yet the greatest gift that I have ever received didn’t come from a store or Amazon.  The most useful gift that I have ever been given, ironically isn’t the gift of life…that was my choice, it’s the gift of knowing the present is about the presence within me that I AM a part of.  And with full understanding of this gift, I can, should I choose, use The Presence to create the life that I want to live. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the gift of being present!

The second step in understanding the Law of Attraction LOA is huge!  A month ago we aired an episode in which we explored the first step in the LOA.  Now the fun of activating and seeing your creative POWER begins.  You will be able to see energy moving into form and out of form creating that which you say you want.  You will witness the Universal Creator of All Things, move people places and things, including yourself, so you can manifest what you have asked for.  You will experience firsthand, life happening for you and not to you.  In short, you will see what can happen, when you consciously choose to partner with the God the Universal Creator of All Things.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we explore the law of attraction and you.

What happens in the aftermath of a life altering situation or event that has occurred in your life?  What happens now?  Where do you go from here?  What next?  In the aftermath how do I get my life back on track?  These are questions that people find themselves asking and struggling to find the correct answers.  In today’s show we’ll look at self coaching techniques that can support you in finding clarity for what’s next. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how to take the next step in your life’s journey. 

Just because you can do a certain thing, does it mean that you should do it? Many people will answer this question with, “No! Of course not!"  Yet we do things to ourselves, negative things, on a continuous bases that impedes our ability to create the life that we say we are wanting to live. “Just because you can, doesn’t mean that you should” applies to any and all facets of your lives; relationships, health, wealth, finances, career, recreation, personal style etc. Just because I can, (and you fill in the blank­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­ here) ________________________ doesn’t mean that I should! Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach as we explore how this statement can impact your life.  

Having an attitude of gratitude and thankfulness for all things that have happened in your life, puts you firmly in the now!  It shifts your thinking from victim to victor, from failure to success.  It makes a statement that boldly says, I can, I have, I will and I did!  When you continuously affirm gratitude and thankfulness you are planted firmly in “the now.”  This means you are neither living in your past, nor in your future.  Ironically, maintaining a continuous attitude filled with gratitude and thankfulness, strengthens your belief in the realized manifestation of what you have asked God or the Universal Creator for.  “And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.” ~ Matthew 21:22  Gratitude and thankfulness is the work that faith needs to keep it alive.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert, and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the power of gratitude and thankfulness.

Many people are stuck on why.  And as a result find it challenging to move forward in their lives.  Why?  Why did my spouse cheat on me, beat me or leave me?  Why did my mother give me up for adoption and abandon me?  Why can’t I lose weight?  Why, why, why, oh why, oh why?  The reality is you may never know why and conversely, you my find out why.  My question to you is this, what happens next?  What happens after you have discover why? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore this three letter word.

Me, myself and I is a phrase that you may have heard people use when they are talking about themselves.  But what does it mean when people talk about themselves as a collective and use the word “WE” to describe the me, myself and I.  Let me give you an example:  In talking to and motivating yourself you say, “We’re going to finish the last chapter of this book tonight.”   My questions are the following; who is the “we” if it’s only you who is reading the book?  And how does thinking of and referring to ones self as the collective “we” help you? Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore me, myself and I as the “we.”

Far too often in life we make choices that are not in our best interests.  Choices that are not made with the crystal clear clarity of our true heart’s desire, choices that are made from emotions rather than the desired end result.  Yet, because we have made these choices the universal Law of Action and Reaction dictate that they become a part of the tapestry of whom we are and who we are becoming.  “So how’s that working out for you?  You know, making the choices you are making and not getting the results that you want?” Getting the results in life that you want is a three pronged process.  It starts out with the understanding that you can get what you want.  Followed by you being clear on what it is that you want.  And ending with 24/7-360 1440 minutes per day gratitude until your manifestation has moved into form. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley, as we examine the way to get life to work the way in which you consciously want it.

Our guest today is Jesse Ferrell best selling self development author, inspirational speaker and life coach. He is a sought after advisor to fortune 500 and multilevel entrepreneur leaders, sports professionals and business people for his life and business coaching expertise.  Jesse, the author of How You Leave Them Feeling, knows the road to happiness and success is based on how you build your relationships.  Today we’ll talk about the importance of building good relationships in your life and how you leave people feeling. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expressions coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at you and how you leave people feeling.

In order to use The Law of Attraction successfully, there are a few fundamentals that, I believe, must be in place.  Today we look at the phrase “know they self” and what that means.  Many people associate “knowing self” with likes and dislikes.  Yet to truly know one’s self goes way beyond that.   To begin creating the life that you say you want to live it first starts out with knowing who you are followed by who you want to be.  Join me Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley, as we delve into the subject matter of “knowing thy self.”

There is a lot of controversy surrounding past lives and reincarnation.  You have the camps who are staunchly, for, and against.  Then you have the scientific camp.  They try really hard to correlate people’s account of past lives and reincarnation with a simple memory recall of something that they had overheard in this life time. There is much evidence to support the theory of past lives and reincarnation.  The most well known historical figure could be Christ or and present day His Holiness The 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet.   Whether you believe or not, what is fascinating is the possibilities and what past lives and reincarnation could mean to, you and your spiritual growth.                                          Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the past lives and reincarnation and what that can might mean to you.

People have asked why the Law of Attraction hasn’t worked for them… in many different ways; “why didn’t God answer my prayers.  Why didn’t the angels help me?  I’m meditating, but nothing is happening, why?  I’m affirming and doing everything the book said, but nada, zilch, nothing.  This stuff just doesn’t work for me.”  This all boils down to the same thing, you want something from the Creative Energy and you can’t seem to get it.  The question is why?  What are you not doing?  Or better yet, the right question to ask might be, “what am I doing?” Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore the ability to use the Universal Creative Energy to manifest the life that you want to live.

Does anyone have the right to tell you definitively what you are feeling and why you are feeling it?  Or to tell you who you must show up in your life as or how to live your life?  Our lives are governed by a mixture of immutable facts and our self created stories, I call fiction.  Knowing which is which is crucial for you to move through your life with a modicum of ease.  As a choice expert and holistic life coach, I have seen the lasting damage that can be caused when someone else’s fiction is fed to you as a fact, and you believe what you have been told to be fact and not fiction. See how complicated it can become, just in the reading of the last sentence alone. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we explore this subject.

Have you ever wondered if there is a secret recipe to creating a loving, meaningful and fulfilling relationship?  Are you longing for or holding out for Mr. or Mrs. Right?  Have you sworn off being a couple because of bad relationship experiences that has left you in protection mode?  Relationship Coach, Eva Love, yeah her surname is LOVE, has created a system that supports you in finding love within self and applying that to any relationship.  She also shows you how to enhance any relationship that you are currently in.  Coach Eva experienced a profound life altering event in 1989, which lead to her creating the Love Miracle System. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, Expression Coach and Artist Olivia Lashley and Relationship Coach Eva Love as we explore her Love Miracle System and how to find love.

Everyone needs an hour of power, or at least I believe so.  Your hour of power is designed by you, for you and will support you through personal motivation and inspiration in achieving your goals, desires and dreams.  Your hour of power helps you to establish a firm foundation on which you can build your life.  It creates an inner knowing and understanding of self.  When you understand yourself and how you are showing up in life, you can then make choices that are in alignment with what you are wanting.  An hour of power is easy to create.  Ironically, it takes less than an hour to do.  However, the value and benefits you will receive are immeasurable...they are life altering.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at how to create an hour of power just for you. Follow me on https://www.facebook.com/mylifemychoiceradioshow?ref=hl https://twitter.com/wendydearborne http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com

Happiness sometimes proves to be as elusive as trying to hold smoke.  More often than not we go on a quest to find happiness.  We search high and low trying and buying all sorts of things only to come full circle and realize that we went in the wrong direction.  If you are looking for happiness I have a question for you, “What are you looking for and where are you looking?”  Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the art of finding happiness.

We kick off the fall or autumn with taking a look at the fundamental principles of what this show and our lives are all about.  CHOICES!  CHOICES! CHOICES!  Unlimited choices, yet you can only make one at a time.  That one choice that you make creates the foundation for the next choice and the next choice and so on.  What building blocks are you using to create the life that you want to live. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and expression coach and artist Olivia Lashley as we look at you and the basic building blocks found in choice.