Personal Development Unplugged

Creating Great Relationships Building Great Relationships: A Recipe for Connection Wouldn't it be wonderful to have great relationships and connections in all areas of your life? Whether you're feeling lonely, struggling with a relationship, or seeking to improve relationships at work, socially, or that special one-to-one connection, this episode is for you. Join us as we form a recipe for great relationships. We'll cover: The importance of identifying the type of relationship you want. How to learn from past relationships—good, bad, and everything in between. Creating a personalized recipe for the relationship that brings you joy.   You'll learn: How to identify what you truly want in a relationship. Steps to manifest the relationships you desire by focusing on the feelings and qualities that matter to you. How to attract people who match your relationship recipe and let go of those who don't.   By the end of this episode, you'll have a clear process to follow and the mindset to attract, create a

 See Hear and Feel The World Differently A 5 second process to bring you straight into the now, the present. In this world of noise and distractions we need this to bring us back into ourselves and the world. You'll close your eyes so no driving or if you need your attention to be safe, you can always come back. So any time, from standing in line, waiting in a busy room,maybe that stuck feeling creating and even in boredom this will make you see, hear and feel your world right now. Please share this little gem: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq459-see-hear-and-feel-the-world-differently   And as always now the video: https://youtu.be/0CmEmHHTzxg Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straigh

 You're More Than you Think You Are A Simple Understanding to Change Your Life Ever wondered how your past decisions still influence your present life? In this episode, we explore the simple yet profound understanding that when we adopted our current issues, we lacked the wisdom, experience, and learnings we now possess. By tapping into our present skills and knowledge, we can transform our lives for the better. Join me as we discuss:   Reflecting on your earliest memories and the limited wisdom you had back then. Understanding how inherited beliefs and values shape our behaviors and emotions. Recognizing the abundance of skills, experiences, and wisdom you now have. How to access and utilize your current resources to overcome old limiting beliefs and negative emotions.   You'll learn:   A simple process to connect with your younger self and send positive emotions and wisdom back in time. How to identify and replace old, inappropriate programs with your current, empowering beliefs and behaviors.

Finding Good Vibrations No - Not the Beach Boys Just a quick story of finding a place not where I expected to find it and I felt what it had to give. Our Hypnotherapy rooms are the same, they hold the feeling of good change and of safety and comfort because of all that's been created in them. And guess what? You can find the same where ever you are. Take a 5-Minute  Quickie listen to find out how Then share what you learn: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq458-finding-good-vibrations/ ‎ Oh! nearly forgot the YouTube video of this episode https://youtu.be/ixqBBmJgo2w Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subscribe OR leave a review Remember for my speci

Overcoming Naysayers: Your Path to Success Ever felt held back by those who say you can't achieve your dreams? In this episode, we tackle how to deal with naysayers and turn their negativity into your driving force. Through two compelling personal stories—one from my own life and one from my son's—you'll discover how to transform your dreams into reality and live the successful, rich life you deserve. We'll cover:   How to recognize and push past the negative influences in your life. Personal anecdotes illustrating the impact of naysayers and how to overcome them. Practical steps to maintain your focus and motivation despite external negativity.   You'll learn:   How to decide for yourself and not let others dictate your success. The importance of surrounding yourself with supportive individuals. Techniques to anchor positive feelings and use them to propel you forward.   By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with the mindset and tools to ignore the naysayers and achieve your goals. Ready

Change Your Emotion In A Heartbeat If Your feeling down, sad or simply not just quite right how would it be if you could change that? right now? The problem is that when we do feel down, sad or simply not just quite right we just want to feel say, happy. We say to ourselves 'If only I could feel happy' and we don't and there is a reason why. Simply, its a jump too much, it's too bigger leap. In this 5-Minute Quickie episode I'll share with you a way to be able to do this. It's simple when you know how, and we do love simplicity here. So invest just a little time with me and learn how to change your emotions, step by simple step. Please share this episode so others may learn of what we do here: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-457-change-your-emotion-in-a-heartbeat And the YouTube link is here: https://youtu.be/MUg6WF8iUL8   Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and

Unlocking the Power of the Miracle Question Ever wondered if miracles are real? In this episode, we delve deep into the concept of the "Miracle Question" and how it can transform your life by eliminating anxiety, boosting confidence, and alleviating sadness and grief. Join me as we explore:   The importance of recognizing changes to celebrate progress. How to envision life without your issues through the Miracle Question. Steps to identify how you would feel, behave, and believe once your problems are resolved.   You'll learn:   How to use the Miracle Question to gain clarity on your goals and dreams. Ways to visualize a future free from your current struggles. How to leverage this technique to create new opportunities and ideas.   By the end of this episode, you'll have a powerful tool to help you imagine and realize a richer, more fulfilling life. Ready to experience your own miracles? Share this episode and help others unlock the power of the Miracle Question: https://personaldevelopmentunplug

Check Your Batteries A true life metaphor Because some steps in life are simple it doesn't mean they can be overlooked - because they are also the most important. The thing is we don't know this until we miss them out. This is true story of mine that shows this to so painfully true. And like all 'mishaps' when we learn from we learn BIG! And the effect spreads far and wide. Have a listen. It'll only take about 5 minutes and you can learn from my 'mishap'  :O) https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-456-check-your-batteries/   And the YouTube Video of this is here https://youtu.be/L6Up2-an9GU Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subscribe OR leave a review Reme

Unlocking Hidden Potential: The Power of Intense Feelings Are You Intelligent Enough to Know What You Want? In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of understanding your true desires and how to manifest them into reality. Join me as we explore why none of us are fully capable of understanding our deepest desires and how we can overcome this limitation. We'll discuss: The intriguing metaphor of a submarine and its radar screen as a way to understand our limited focus. Why focusing on what you want is just the beginning and not enough for achieving your dreams. How to tap into the vast potential outside your current awareness by intensifying your feelings and emotions. You'll learn: The importance of visualizing your goals and dreams with intense emotions. How to use the feeling of the wish fulfilled to guide your unconscious mind. Practical steps to amplify these feelings and let your unconscious mind do the heavy lifting. By the end of this episode, you'll have a simple yet powerful step to t

Lower The Bar And Achieve Success And we all want success and the confidence that it brings with it. That confidence also tends to spread to other areas of our lives and that's go to be great too Seems daft when I hear myself say that Lower The Bar And Achieve Success but..... it's true if you want continued and comfortable success even if there is a little stretching involved - It wouldn't be personal development without a stretch   :O) And we all know counter intuitive is nearly always right so bear with me in this 5-minute quickie and I think you'll get it, it took me a little time but when I did BOOM! Dive in and press play and then share what you learn: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-455-lower-the-bar-and-achieve-success And the all important YouTube video link    https://youtu.be/HdrREohWS6g   Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email m

Transforming Limiting Beliefs From Self-Doubt to Self-Worth Have you ever felt, "I'm not good enough," "I can't do this," or "I don't deserve thiss"? These limiting beliefs can be overwhelming, but what if I told you they have a positive intention? In this enlightening episode, we explore why these negative feelings can actually be a protective mechanism and how you can transform them into feelings of safety, comfort, and self-worth. In this episode, I'll discuss: The positive intention behind limiting beliefs. How these beliefs develop and generalize over time. You'll learn: Why your unconscious mind creates these beliefs to protect you. How to reframe these beliefs to feel good enough and worthy. Through a guided process, you'll discover: How to identify the emotions, behaviors, and beliefs you need to feel safe and confident. A simple yet effective visualization exercise to reprogram your unconscious mind. Join me as we delve into this transformative journey, providing you with the tools to change yo

When You Don't Need Your Why To Succeed Simon Sinek wrote 'Find Your Why' and finding your values is really important but this is not that. We've all done it, or is it just me? When thing aren't going the way we want - Asked ourselves questions like: 'Why is this always happening to me?' 'Why can't I do this?' 'Why does it keep going wrong?' 'Why am I such an Idiot?' And we'll answer with every excuse or reason, and they're all negative and dis-empowering and in effect let us off the hook - Every EXCUSE or even BLAME other people. So what better questions can we ask that will be empowering and get us away from negative beliefs, negative emotions or limiting beliefs? Well........................... It's a podcast so press play and I'll explain all and in around 5-10 minutes!  :O) And please share: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-454-when-you-dont-need-your-why-to-succeed Plus there's now a video of this too: https://youtu.be/Nufn2ySeiE0 Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a commen

Remove Anxiety And Be Successful My Journey and How You Can Do It Too In this episode, I share a personal story from my early days as an NLP trainer, facing overwhelming anxiety before a major solo training event. Through this experience, I discovered a simple yet powerful method to overcome anxiety and achieve success. In this episode, I'll discuss: A true story of my struggle with anxiety and how I overcame it. The five keys to success and how they can help you. How to act "as if" to change your physiology and psychology. You'll learn: How to push away negative thoughts and visualize a successful outcome. How to prepare mentally and physically for anxiety-inducing situations. The importance of taking action and being flexible in your approach.   Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, you'll discover: The power of acting "as if" to transform your mindset and behavior. How to use the five keys to success to achieve your goals. Why it's crucial to focus on what you want rather than what you

Why Celebrating Leads To Success Plus it feels good! We all like to feel good, you know that feeling when you've done something you wanted to achieve. It's a nice feeling of inner satisfaction. Well, that's the worst that can happen if you follow this 5-Minute Quickie musing. When you do what I share and suggest it'll guide your  unconscious mind to find more of what gives you pleasure and that inner satisfaction, plus you'll probably end up achieving more too  :O) Big claim for a 5-Minute podcast episode which actually lasts 9 minute but who's counting - more for your buck. You may also want to celebrate your sharing of the podcast too: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-453-why-celebrating-leads-to-success and feel that inner satisfaction now Or even watch the video of the recording and see me https://youtu.be/VGvKdcBwtMY Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and su

Removing Anxiety in Real Life Overcoming Fear In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the realm of anxiety and fear, sharing a personal story of how overwhelming anxiety can be and how it can be managed effectively. This episode is designed to provide you with practical tools to combat anxiety and regain control of your emotions. In this episode I'll discuss:   A real-life story of dealing with anxiety and fear. Two powerful processes to remove anxiety and feel good.   You'll learn:   How to push away negative thoughts and visualize a successful outcome. How to prepare mentally for upcoming anxiety-inducing situations.   Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, you'll discover:   The importance of acknowledging your anxiety and finding a better way to handle it. How to use visualization techniques to see yourself succeeding in stressful situations.   Join me as I share these valuable insights and techniques to help you overcome anxiety and live a more confident life. And...... Afte

Making Life Richer at a Pace When we rush and tear, hurry and hustle. always moving on to the next big thing we miss out on something very special. There's another way to get there, probably quicker, certainly easier and guess what? we get to experience that SPECIAL.. I'll explain it all in a short story and you can make us your own mind, I think I know which way YOU will choose..   Please share so everybody else get to experience it too https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-452-making-life-richer/ Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the podcast (I know you do) click here to learn more Or simply click here to go straight to Apple Music / iTunes to subscribe OR leave a review Remember for my specially designed programs for developing Supreme Inner Confidence, Free Your Li

Mental Health - It's All In The Mind Let's take control In this thought-provoking episode, we delve deep into the realm of mental health, exploring the nuances of anxiety and fear. This episode is designed to challenge those who may be stuck in a cycle of anxiety and victim-hood, while offering genuine solutions for those who are ready to take control and make a change. I address: The difference between genuine anxiety and those who use it as an excuse. How to break free from the cycle of fear and anxiety. The importance of not wallowing in past traumas and instead focusing on the present and future. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, you'll discover: Why acknowledging your fears is the first step to overcoming them. How to visualize a positive future and use that vision to propel yourself forward. The power of small, actionable steps in transforming your mental health. I'll also emphasize the importance of seeking one-on-one help if needed and offer resources like my 65 NLP and hypnos

The Red Pen Of Fear Or how to demotivate and the antidote In this 5-Minute Quickie episode you may be regressed back to school, I was when I recorded it and remembering what it felt like to receive back my homework slashed to bits with a red pen. I can remember how it felt and how I hated doing the next piece of homework knowing what was to come. Can you relate to this? THEN..... I remembered how my son Luke was encouraged to do well and he did. I'll share that with you and you may just see how we can motivate others and ourselves to do well and feel great! Please share so others may have the same experience: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-451-the-red-pen-of-fear/ Or if you want the video of this: https://youtu.be/v2LCcSX7AHA Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just email me feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com If you want to subscribe to the

Selfless Service What It Really Costs The True Meaning of Selfless Service In this heartfelt episode, I delve into the concept of selfless service and its profound impact on our lives. What does it truly mean to serve without expecting anything in return? I'll share personal anecdotes and insights that highlight the essence of selfless service, from helping a stranger in need to the simple act of sharing a smile. You'll discover The real value of selfless service and how it enriches our lives. Why acts of kindness, big or small, can create ripples of positive change. How to cultivate a habit of kindness and make it a part of your daily life. Join me as I explores how these acts of kindness not only benefit others but also bring unexpected rewards to ourselves. This episode encourages you to reflect on your own experiences of giving and receiving kindness and to spread that positivity in your everyday interactions. Listen in and discover how embracing selfless service can transform your life and the lives

Connecting With Your Unconscious Mind I'd love to share with you a few ways I've found to connect with your unconscious mind. I've been struggling with this because I just want to get closer to me. It all came to me when I realised I just wasn't listening and just as the universe/multiverse kept telling me and I was missing it. And then it came to me or I finally listened to me but listened in a different way and that's what I'm sharing with you, in this 5-minute Quickie, all that I heard, felt and saw. I hope you find this interesting and try out the different ways we can connect and learn. If you do please share https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-450-connecting-with-your-unconscious-mind Don't forget or even remember if you want to see me in this recording catch it on YouTube here https://youtu.be/NdFCZAxE5iE Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback.  If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just