The Art Of Love Podcast

Why do women seem to prefer bad boys or jerks over a nice guy? Do nice guys have to start being mean to women, in order to be successful with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what women really want in a man and the main difference between nice guys and jerks.

The word narcissist is often used to describe an ex. This wasn't always the case. Is it possible that there has been an increase in narcissistic personality disorders? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains whether your ex is really a narcissist or if there's something else going on.

How can you get your ex back if you were dumped for being too needy? Will no contact work in this case, or do you need to do something else? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you absolutely must do if you were too needy in your relationship and now want your ex back.

Is there a way to make your ex reach out to you? If so, should you do it or wait for them to contact you when they're ready? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why trying to get your ex to reach out to you often backfires.

If you've done no contact correctly, there's a good chance you'll hear from your ex.  How you handle re-connecting with your ex will make the difference between getting back together or losing them again.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should not say to your ex when you text/talk to them after no contact.

If you've been trying to manifest a text from someone but haven't been able to, get ready to be inspired. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments from people who have followed her technique for manifesting a text from an ex and have been successful.

How do you do no contact if you have to see your ex at work, school or some other place? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to do a modified version of no contact in these situations, as well as how to behave when you see your ex, in order to have the best chance at getting them back.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you already know it's one of the hardest things you've ever done. Dating/relationship expert Lucia inspires you to keep going by telling you about others who have had success with the no contact rule.

There are many reasons why people break up, but there are 3 mistakes that the majority of people who are dating make. These often lead to breakups. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the top 3 dating mistakes are, based on her experience speaking to hundreds of clients who are trying to get their ex back.

When you get your ex back, there's something you must do, otherwise, there's a chance they'll break up with you again. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and why it's so important.

Some people are able to manifest a text from their ex, and yet some aren't. Why is that? What is the difference between someone who is able to manifest and someone who isn't? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you may be doing wrong, by using an example of how she manifested a text from a celebrity.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you've most likely been tempted to break it at least once. However, you probably know it's a bad idea. Dating/relationship Lucia reveals what happens when you break no contact, using real life stories. She then explains what to do instead of contacting your ex.

If you're in no contact in order to get your ex back and you need inspiration to stay the course, here it is. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads more success stories from people who successfully got their ex back using no contact.

When someone is trying to get their ex back, they often make the mistake of thinking they have to be "nice" to them, in order to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why being nice may actually backfire and why you have to "hurt" your ex in order to get them back.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers listener emails about everything from how to get your ex back to the no contact rule.

If you want to get your ex back, there is something you absolutely must have if you want to have a chance to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you need to get your ex back and why it's so important.

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you will probably hear from them at some point. Should you respond when they reach out? If so, what should you say? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the exact words to text back when you finally hear from your ex.

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back and it doesn't seem to be working, does that mean it failed? Or could something else be going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the top 3 reasons why the no contact rule doesn't "seem" to be working.

If it's been months or years since your break up and you still refuse to let go - whether it's physically or emotionally - what's going on? Why can't you move on? Dating/relationship Lucia has a success story from a coaching client who reveals the reason why people are often afraid to move on after a break up.

If you've been dumped and you want your ex back, should you delete their pictures on social media or keep them up? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains if and when you should delete your ex's photos if you want the best chance at getting them back.