My Life My Choice

Staying positive when your life is evolving in ways that you don’t want can be a challenge.  The loss of a loved one, things, job, self worth etc. you name it all create a paradigm for the spiral downward into our self created abyss. Finding a single technique that can be used for all situations to keep you on track and in alignment with your goals, is the key that you need for attaining and succeeding in life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at how to create your personalizedpositivity key.

Are you good to your neighbor?  Do you even know your neighbor?  Do you know what’s going on in your neighborhood?  Do you speak to your neighbor?  When was the last time you went out of your way to help your neighbor?  And do you know who your closest neighbor is?   As we explore the metaphysical nature of this question, it brings a different perspective to the words, "Thou Shalt Love Thy Neighbor As Thyself." [Roman 13:9] Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look what’s going on in your hood!

What do you want people to say about you on your passing?  What kind of conversation do you want to have on your transition or deathbed?  Or when you meet up with the eternal you that never dies.  What conversation do you want to have with you then?  The conversation that you want to have with you or how you desire to be eulogized is predicated on the choices that you are making in your life today, this minute, this second…in the now.  So think about the carbon foot print that you’ll leave behind, because as sure as you are breathing, you will be leaving behind a thread which imbues the essence of you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the power of your eulogy.

What role does choice…your choice, other people’s choices, the mass mind or collective consciousness play in the evolution of your life?   Can conscious choice and the awareness of your choices support you in creating the life that you want to live?  As a choice expert, I know personally and professionally the role that choice plays in my life and how the role of choice impacts the lives of people.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we reconnect with the idea of choice and what it means in the equation of creating the life that you want to live.

Our 30 day greens smoothie challenge/fast officially ended yesterday.  The journey has been amazing.  I want to share some of the benefits and highlights with you.    

Trying to eat the “right thing” can create untold challenges in your life.  Being environmentally and politically correct, along with trying hard to  fit in with the current social trends, can place a serious strain on your wallet and more importantly, place a hazardous strain on your physical, mental and emotional well being.  Yoyo dieting, fad dieting, rollercoaster dietary scientific findings and suggestions, fashion designers, corporations and the media play a huge role in our state of health.  So much so that one day we are told eggs are taboo and the next…you must eat eggs to be in the pink of health.  However, you do have a choice over what you can do for you.  You do have control over creating a balanced healthy dietary lifestyle that is uniquely designed for you.   And guys, it really is very simple.  Join me choice expert Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore dieting and you.

Do you believe!?  Or do you believe? Or are you  just a believer?  How do you know that you believe?  Would you choose to live for your beliefs?  How do you know that that which you profess to believe in is real? I'm back on the power of belief again.  Join us as we, that's me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley C.C  explore this dynamic subject.

Can you see the silver lining in the thunder cloud?  Sometimes in life it has to go all wrong so that life can set you on the right pathway.  Finding the good and being grateful for it the good in the bad situation can transform your life.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the silver lining that enshrouds our lives.

What if the old axiom "you are what you eat" is really true?"  Based on that fact alone, who are you.  This is something to ponder and discuss.  The spirituality of food and the multiple ways in which it can and will affect your life is nothing short of amazing.  Use food as a tool to support your mind body and spiritual connection and growth.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we talk about the hidden wonders of food.  

Do you know how to communicate with your Angels?  Today, we are joined by Denise Stefan, an intuitive oracle reader and facilitator of Angelspeake.  Denise will be talking about her life her experiences and how they ultimately created the paradigm for her to be able to communicate with her Guardian Angel Claire.   Denise will discuss how she talks with her Angels, Masters and Spirit Guides.  She will also be conducting live mini oracle readings.  Denise says, “you will never feel alone and will have the answers to all of your questions – just ask and the Angels will Speake!”

This is a question that has been asked by many people from many faiths, from many walks of life, from many different cultures and who have differing beliefs.  How do I build a relationship with myself?  Well, it starts with choosing you.  Join us as we, that’s, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley explore this subject.

The Freedom To Be is a uniquely personal experience that carries the weight or the weightlessness of ownership, responsibility and accountability.  Your Freedom To Be , speaks of your conscious awareness of choosing for self, by self.  You either choose what you are wanting for self or  your choose what the mass mind/consciousness chooses for you.  What does freedom mean to you? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore freedom and what it can mean.

There is a mystical power found in  the words I AM.  Magical power is unleashed when these words, "I AM," are uttered, whether silently or audibly, knowingly or unknowingly. I AM that I AM and ALL that I AM IS, and IS, is ALL that I Am. I AM is All that I ever will be, for ALL that I AM is who I AM. When you understand the significance of the phrase "I Am that I AM" and the relevance it has in how you make choices  you will experience a paradigm shift that has the potential to turn your world on its axis. Join me, Rev. Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore the metaphysical meaning of the phrase I AM that I AM.

When things happen in our lives in a way that we didn’t want or hadn’t anticipated, we call it a mistake or failure.  But is it?  Is it really a mistake?  Did you really fail?  There are so many different reframes that you can use to look at any situation in your life. Reframes, in this instance, that not only speak of new possibilities, but speak in ways that allow you, should you choose, to let go of people, places and things that no longer have effective relevance in your life.  What do you consider to be your biggest failure and your greatest failing?  Could this be your greatest success?  Could failure plant you in the center of your square of self empowerment?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at failure.

We all come here with the same set of basic spiritual tools.  Tools that we are fairly familiar with intuition or insight, meditation, breathing, yoga etc.  But we also have a spiritual tool that many of us choose to over look, primarily, because we don’t know how to use it.  That tool is our very own and personal dream state.   We are honored to have Dr. Michael Lennox back with us to talk about dreams and a retreat he is facilitating in Montana in June.  Dr. Michael Lennox (Los Angeles, CA) michaellennox.com is a practicing psychologist and one of the most respected and sought after dream interpreters in the U.S. His book, Dream Sight: A Dictionary and Guide for Interpreting Any Dream, for me is one of the foremost books written in this field.  He has appeared on SyFy, MTV, and many radio shows, and has published articles in Today's Woman, TV Guide, and other magazines.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we talk to Dr. Michael about his work and what you’ll experience at

Are you going through life in survival mode?  Survival, like all things has an illuminated side and it has a shadow side that can cast a pall or dark cloud over every aspect of your life.  It can inspire you to great heights or it can imprison you within a mental jail of your making. Survival is a metaphysical tool that is designed to support you in getting out of or getting away from people, places and things that will harm you. Survival is a mode that we are not designed to live our lives by, but is designed to be use to create and live the lives that we choose.  Join us Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss the reasons why it is to your detriment to live your life in a constant state of survival.  

You are plugged directly into a Power Source that is attached to all people, places, things and functions.  The Creative Process or Universal Principle that flows through the river Nile, in Egypt, is the same Creative Principle that heals the paper cut on your finger.  It’s the same Creative Principle we witness when a baby takes his/her first breath or an elder takes their last.  This Creative Source is the very same Universal energy that poured the foundation of your life.   It furnishes you with the tools to build the life you have and will support you in recreating any aspect of living that you want to change.  There is but “One Power” “One Source” that flows through us all and uses us and is to be used by us for perfect self expression. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we look and the Oneness of all things and what this can mean to us.

How do I become a better person or version of myself?  How do I change me and some of the things that I do?  These are questions that in my practice I have been asked, a lot.  Enhancing what you consider to be the finer qualities of self starts with consciously choosing, YOU.  It starts by acknowledging that the structure you built that is now standing on your foundation needs to be remodeled.  That’s a process: Authenticity, ownership, surrender, responsibility, clarity, Universal Law of Discipline and accountability.    Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore this sensitive subject.

Knowing that you co-create your life’s foundation by “claiming” your thoughts, dreams and desires, places you in a position of “POWER.”  Change your thoughts, dreams and desires and change the foundation and or the building that you are constructing. Understanding the role your choices play in your LIFE, places you in a position of conscious creativity.  Use the Universal tools that you have access to, to build a structure that will rival anything else that you have created.  Design and leave a legacy to support those who come behind you. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as we explore what this can mean for you and the life that you choose to live.

Do you want to change the square of life that you are currently standing upon?  Do you want something different now and for the rest of your life? Whether this is your health, wealth, relationships and or career.  The key to attaining this is in the stability of your foundation and what you build upon it. The foundation of your life is all about the "choices" you make.  To build anything, and I mean anything in your life, whether it is relationships, wealth, health, career, etc. requires two things:  Within your thought process, your ability for you to claim the end result.  Or, claim that which you desire.  And, your ability to see the end result or that which you desire. The actual foundation, on which you build your life on, is born of the thoughts and impressions that you have. You see, you don’t actually create the foundation itself, the Universe or whoever is your chosen deity, assist in that creation for process. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley as