Sex Talk With Lou

Monica Lewinsky's TED Talk focusing on cyberbullying is in my mind a pivotal TED Talk.She is taking back th enarrative of her life and blazed onto the scene as probably th emost high profile cyber bullying victim in the world. As i watched I was seeing a woman who has come into her own, she's beautiful, very well spoken and pasionate about her focus. She is going to galvanize an anti-cyberbullying movemnet unlike any other. Most cyberbullying is related to jealousy, sexuality or mob mentality. I would love to see parents having to be responsible for the children's cyberbullying as Nicole Wallace , co-host of THE VIEW suggeted. Want to have fun in Vegas? Get thee to the Fifty Shades of Grey Parody. This is a very fun show with a high;ly talented cast. My new columns and trends that I am seeing in sex.

So what do oyou do when you can't connect and feel pushed away sexually? What if you want to break your pattern of ending good relationships because you aren't turned on as much? I'll cover some tricky issues many couples struggle with and possible GO-TO options a la Lou. How love differs from desire and how to baby proof your intimacy...it isn't as easy as one thinks.

59 Shades Review - This is my letter to the screenwriter and director for 50 Shades of Grey. How could you have left out soooo much of the story? The docus was on the sex not on the relationship and THE RELATIONSHIP ran the trilogy, My wish is that the next screenplay incorporates Anastasia's narrative because that was the fun part of the read. Change of earning dynamics in relationships, when more women are earning more than their partners. The epidemic of rape of campuses - The Hunting Ground - Kirby Dirk and Amy Zeiring documentary What are you doing to increase YOUR magnetism? My tried and true steps to help you get it back.

Lou interviews Dr.Charles Runels about The O Shot procedure. Based on Platelet Rich Plasmapheresis (PRP) therapy this is a revolutionary way to improve women's continence and orgasmic response. Technically the O Shot initiates the growth of new tissue in the clitoris, pubococcygeus muscle that is the muscle that contracts during orgasm, upper vaginal vault and surrounding tissue. We discuss best uses for this PRP procedure and specifically how it is done. We discuss the damage and problems with Laser Vaginal Rejuvenation therapy, neither rejuvenating or therapeutic.

I review the Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo -ANME 2015. Held twice annually I look for what's new, what works and what are new trends. I recommend all the products and you can find all online. Sportsheets new line of 5 Kits Sexperiments leads to their best ANME show ever. I love Bijoux Indiscrets out of Barcelona, Elsa Viegas is co-founder and they have a terrific line of quality lingerie and products. Their new Twenty-One is an award winning golden diamond vibrator. Fabulously newly introduced in November 2014 and new to US at this show. Vibratex - introduces Black Pearl a vibrating prostate massager for men, and FINALLY the Hiatchi Magic Wand as rechargable and new siliocne head. OhMiBod - bluemotion remote vibe for women and men that can be operated anywhere you have phone coverage including internationally by your mobile device for your partner's pleasure. This is OhMiBod's latest new and fabulous design. Plus LoveLife line. Cu in Bed - one of the best new products I saw - The use of Cop

Kim Airs joins me to talk about what we expect to see at upcoming adult novelty trade show. ANME, XBIZ, SHE and AVN. We'll also cover Bubble Love the revolutionary product for women who love water stimulation. Many many women first learn about orgasms in the shower and bathtub and the inventor crested this product because that is what his wife loves. Smart man. What lubes to use, sex toy trends, anal play for men and its association with prostate health.

Sex in the News in 2014 was varied and constant. I look at things I feel had greatest impact in 2014. Same sex marriage, Bill Cosby's reported sex abuses, sad state of rape on college campuses and what can be done, hip hip hooray for Pope Francis and his comments on gay worshippers, Cuddle Clubs and why they are needed, increasing trend of Open relationships and marriages, Tinder impact on dating/hookups/relationships or should I say lack thereof. Increase of infertility and its impact. How Ryan Robertson's suicide completely changed his evangelical parents attitude about how damaging Reparative Therapy. Dan Savage's 'It Only Gets Better". The Trevor Project. That Michelle Duggar should 'Button it" about her comments on transgender. Her comments are irresponsible and she is sadly misinformed and is being used as shill for three politicians in Fayetteville. FYI - Michelle these transgeneder individuals are 'God's Gift' as well. Fifty Shades continuing impact. Joycelyn elders Chair in Sexual Health Edu

I read about The BEST Christmas gift I ever received wasn't at all what I expected. I cover Best Sex Toy gifts for Couples - We-Vibe 4, Anaeros, Dai-Do #1 and #4, SportSheets, OhMiBod, Bubble Love, AfterGlow, Crave - Duet, Fixsation and others, making an Essential List for 2014/2015.

This is potpourri week, I cover some of the commonly asked questions I get, What do Great Lovers Know and Do?, Best Oral Sex Technique to have women orgasm, Kivin AKA Tahitian, Anal Sex questions and more.

Join me in 2015 on a cruise where I will be talking about all things sexual!!!! Post Thanksgiving and looking towards 2015 and for the first time ever I have chosen to be part of 5 expert women creating an exclusive group of 80 woman who want to change their world's and their lives. checkout www.summitatsea.ca. Sexy Holiday Shopping, Joan Price's new book, pregnancy and your kitty - research shows no need to worry about Toxplasmosis gondii AKA Toxo.

I will be discussing one of the best ways to make yourself appealing is to be grateful, to others and especially your self. Sex In The News segments - Pubic Hair Removal Patterns and more.

My twin sister Dede is my guest as we examine two of her favorite subjects, Star Trek Sex and Shakespeare. After studying she sees exact theme parallels between the two and we are going to talk about the sexual themes. Forbidden Love, Arranged marriages, Interracial sex they have them all. TNG and TOS are looked at along with mating rituals that have relevance to we earth beings.

Author of My Sexual Awakening at 70. Widowed and asexual for 15 years Rosenberg's tipping point was realizing she hadn't had sex for 15 years and went on a misssion to address her repressed sexuality. Step 1, change meds, Step 2 great advice from her doctor and therapist and Lynn Brown Rosenberg discovered vibrators, fabulous orgams and an aliveness about herself and sexuality she'd never had. The freedom she now feels about her sexual self and the funny stories of her first forays into naughty chat websites. Her first online sex chatroom. How two conversations with her parents stunted her sexuality for 69 years. What messages she'd like women to know. www.lynnbrownrosenberg.com

Lou Shares Best Ideas for Choosing and Drawing in your Best Lover & Sex in The News. Sex in the News - i) How a boat named Odalisque is named in a political debate and becomes a 'Turkish Slave'??? Honey Boo-Boo sexual abuse issue Choosing Your Best Lover and Partner My Preachers of LA segment Season #2- show 9, Sane, Sanctified and Sexual. 1) Be Clear what works for YOU 2) Remove your ego from the selection. 3) Be Realistic 4) Love something else - Love is magnetic shows a passion, focus and willingness to pay attention to someone other than you. 5) Focus, Focus, Focus, Focus. Know what you want and constantly revisit throughout the day. 6) TALK to the person, not just text, FB. Relationships and Love occur in person not cyberspace. 7) Be Grateful, 8) Forgive - yourself and others 9) Find Faith in You.

Rose Caraway Editor THE SEXY LIBRARIAN'S BIG BOOK of EROTICA. Imagine having your very own Erotica Librarian!!! Well that's what Rose Caraway has done. Collected works from top eroticists from Perfect Massages, to Shibari girl power to Clinical orgasms in space to Horror Erotica, Caraway's anthology covers 22 very unique and highly erotic tales ideal for anyone looking for new twists on erotic themes. Trust me this is a must for any afficiando of erotica. Check out her thekissmequicks.com Caraway's Sexy Librarian Blog-cast the inspiration for this book.

What would you do if you'd been severely injured and couldn't feel of keep connected to your partner? This was the 7th year our Panel on Relationship, Sexuality and Quality of Life presented for the Coalition to Support America's Heroes and addressed those issues. Where Sexuality and Religion Co-Exist, How Wartime Affects Sexuality, Reclaiming Sexuality in the Face of Disability - For You and Your Partner, Mating and Dating. Panel of 4 esteemed experts share what they know works for others so these soldiers and partners can create and recreate new and or revived connections.

A hilarious guidebook by a comedic writer who has walked the convoluted and less than straight road of digital dating. And the real reason for many on these sites despite their claims of seeking connection falls into one of the following categories: Facetime Sex, Kink Sex, Tantric Sex, Great Sex, Dreadful Sex oh and more LOL real adventures in digital dating. Red flags on a profile, How to showcase yourself and how to be true to what YOU want. Fleischer's experience of being on just about every dating website lead to her creation of PICTUREPERFECTPROFILES.COM

My colleague Michael Russer and I cover his new Milennial-focused Kickstarter based program kickstarterlaunch.com starting October 8th, for his book and program 'Helping Men Become What Women Love. This powerful never-before-created program is a step by step Guide for singles and couples to create EXTRAORDINARY INTIMACY through emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy. Michael's own journey through impotence to Extraordinary Intimacy was the starting point for this completely unique model for loving, lasting relationships that people have always sought.

I start with a discussion of Emma Watson's presentation at the UN then to one of my most commonly asked questions - Whether it is a woman or a man - I am asked by people who are single "How do I make myself be more appealing? How do I 'DRAW' in my soul mate, my partner?" So this is HOW TO INSTANTLY INCREASE YOUR SEX APPEAL. One of your most powerful and seductive behaviors is your ATTENTION. How you pay ATTENTION, ATTENTION is a gift, it is a powerful energy that only one person can gve to another. LISTENING is another powerful tool you have should you use it. Gentle lIstening will give you a life and relationship unlike you ever expected. I suggest you do a LIST of 5 Items - You want and 5 that make YOU attractive to your partner. When you walk with the behaviors of: Confidence, Attention, Gentle Listening, Gentle Speaking you will create a completely new world for you and your heart.

I laughingly start with a video of Older adults reacting to the 50 Shades of Grey Trailer. They had a great range of responses that reflects the general population in the HuffPost Gold for the Soul. Reading Necessary Endings by Henry Cloud and his wisdom also applies to our sex lives and relationships. We have all seen there are absolutely times when we should have ended a sexual relationship, business relationship and or a personal relationship. Also Want to Be Kissed The Way You Want? Lou talks about that. My New Guilty Pleasure - Married at First Sight - this show is a window on how couples enter relationships. Anyone who is a therapist or wants to learn about love and relationships should glue their eyeballs to this show. They may call it a 'Social Experiment" yet it is an experiment that is working. The Married At First Sight Expert team of Pepper Schwartz PhD, Logan Levkoff PhD, Joseph Cilona PhD and Greg Epstein did an amazing job of selecting the couples and supporting these three couple