Joel Pilka: On My Way To Work

There’s a subtle art of not giving a f$ck it’s not so subtle but if you manage it correctly it’s very healthy way to live #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

Do you meditate if so great if not why not do you know how do you know how simple it is here are some basic ways to incorporate it into your life #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

why do we live to each other is it to protect our feelings were to protect their feelings I think a lot of times we have that mixed up why can’t we just tell people the truth and then we both can deal with it are we afraid of confrontation what is it maybe take a look and see if there’s times in your life you can avoid lying and just maybe being OK with what the truth is it’s not always easy #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

focusing is my work in progress --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

are used to be very afraid of confrontation so afraid I would go through stupid ridiculous lies and efforts just to avoid it but it’s nothing to worry about nobody cares and everything‘s gonna be OK so just be you have fun #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

there’s a few simple ways to make your passion project a reality right now. #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

Why do we wait for people to finally pass on before we fly there to say goodbye if someone’s in dire straits and on the brink why wouldn’t we go there while they are alive to say goodbye to connect with them as opposed to waiting till after they pass to go fly there to say goodbye. #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

I’ll just have to put life in perspective all the time I don’t want to be a negative influence on those around me I’m gonna pay attention if I’m complaining too much I’m gonna try to Nippet in the bud make sure that I’m a positive force in life and at work #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

TJ is hurting and really fighting for his life right now. I’m sorry haus, I miss you and love you. Be strong. #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

Life is very short as we know and really soon we start getting to the age where all those things we thought would happen or could happen later in life are starting to happen it’s already happening there is no later in life is only now live it the way you dream it because it can all be gone in an instant. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

The stories that you tell yourself are they really true based on facts or the things you conjured up in your head to avoid some fear or some uncomfortable places in your life take a few moments to really think about it and see if you’re believing the stores that are made up in your head because of real life facts or because you are trying to avoid doing something or saying something or trying something-#crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

today as I pulled into the work parking lot my tire is squeaking and it’s making me very self-conscious it’s hard for me to even park in this garage for fear that some coworkers might see me but I’m going to do it anyway here we go. face your fears #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

hey if you’ve let money to somebody or your time or your heart don’t be down on yourself or feel like an idiot or any loss of self-worth for you because you made the mistake of trusting the person actually they should be the one ashamed of themselves and you should be standing up tall with a clear eyes and a full heart because you came to that relationship and a full open and trusting state of mine they did not so you should not feel bad about yourself they should. #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

I think a lot of the stressors that we deal with each day we conjure up in our own mind I didn’t courage myself and all of you to take a step back take a breath and get some perspective that what you’re stressing about might not be such a big deal think about it --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

So many times were distracted not actually paying attention to the person I’m with, my child, my coworkers etc. take a look up, take your time and practice paying attention to one another. our most valuable asset is time and it is a gift to give your time to someone. be present #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

is there somebody in your life that is going through a hard time or somebody in your life you need to say thank you sit down write a hand written thank you note and put it in the mail immediately it’ll help them and it’ll help you. #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

are you here today who’s here who’s coming with me are you present are you paying attention or you live make sure you are present as much as possible if you can give your attention and your time to another human being that is precious and it also slows you down to do good work I will be challenging myself to leave my phone in a basket when I walk in the door at night until the next day I’ll let you know how it goes if you have any tips or tricks please email me at joel@thePostivelifeco.com. #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

How come most times we share a life goal or challenge or dream with the people we love or anybody for that matter they will first start listing the reasons why it’s impossible to difficult and why I will never complete the goal why don’t we ever do fall towards the supportive how can I help that’s fascinating I’m excited for you let’s do this why don’t we default to that I’m not saying we need to blow smoke up peoples bottoms but why don’t we leased support them a little bit in the beginning when it’s very tough to even get started so that they have the inkling of success and whatever their dreams and goals and visions are let’s be a little bit more supportive of each other and our goals and dreams it’s hard enough as it is on our own #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

Close your eyes and the first person who pops into your head right now Bam stop and send them a text message and just say hey I was thinking about you I hope you have a great day this will change your day it’ll change their day and you may even reconnect and have a nice chat have an awesome day #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support

here’s a prime example of me double and triple booking myself I’m trying to do the things in life that I really want to do I’m trying to fit them into my life man it’s not easy #crushlife --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joelpilka/support