Intimate Interactions

Jazz Goldman and I talk about organizing sex positive and sex-on-premises events. We talk about our love of these events and why we volunteer to do that work. We share our experiences in sex communities including the burner scene. I do use the word “literally” in this episode to mean “figuratively” which is now definitively one of the definitions of the word literally - don’t hate me for using modern English. I don’t like that the word has come to mean what it means, but I’m rolling with the punches. We also talk about the experience of organizing as mixed-race people of colour. What’s the difference between sex-on-premises and sex-positive in event organizing? What was going to your first sex event like? What do you like most about sex events? What kinds of sex-on-premises events exist in various cities you’ve been in? How does your experience as a non-binary femme affect your experience at sex-on-premises events? How does your experience as a Black person affect your experience at sex-on-pre