Intentional Living With Tanya Hale
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Sinopsis
Join certified life coach Tanya Hale on a journey of discovering how to live a more meaningful life filled with acceptance, contentment, and happiness.
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#167 I Didn't Sign Up For This
06/09/2021 Duración: 26minI've heard this phrase so many times throughout my life. In fact, I'm sure I've used it more than once. And today it's time to take a look at how this thought, and others like it, are not serving us. They are not putting us into figuring-it-out mode and moving us forward. Today we'll talk about why thoughts like this keep us stuck and how to create thoughts that move us, instead, into our possibility.
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#166 Imaginary Friends
30/08/2021 Duración: 23minOur relationships are being destroyed by our imaginations. When we struggle to accept people as they are and live in the land of 'should' by expecting them to be something they're not, we are destroying connections with our people. Let's create instead the beautiful, intimate relationships we innately crave.
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#165 I Would Never Act That Way
23/08/2021 Duración: 21minHave you ever seen someone do or say something that just shocked you and you thought, "I would never act that way", or "I would never say something like that." If so, you're not alone. Today I want to chat with you about why that isn't a helpful thought and how it's keeping you from becoming your best self.
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#164 How Being In Control Is Destroying Your Life
16/08/2021 Duración: 37minOur desire to control all the things - the people, the situations, the how's, when's, why's, and where's - is destroying our lives. It comes packaged in cute phrases akin to,"I just want you to be happy and successful", but our relationships are suffering and our sense of well-being is always teetering on the edge of misery. Today we're talking about how to more clearly see our controlling behaviors and how to let go of them.
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#163 Difficult People
09/08/2021 Duración: 29minYou know who I'm talking about. Those people who push your buttons, who are so challenging to love, and who make you question yourself. Today I will give you the tools to know how to deal with the most difficult people in your life in the most effective way - and it probably won't be what you think!
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#162 My 90-day Relationship
02/08/2021 Duración: 39minI recently completed what is called a 90-day relationship - a predetermined time for a relationship in which you commit to intentionally create a healthy partnership and work through all of the inevitable struggles. It was brilliant and beautiful and I loved every second of it. At the end of 90 days we ultimately decided our paths were diverging, but it was an amazing experience I would do all over again, even knowing the heartache waiting for me at the end.
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#161 Developing More Intimacy In Your Relationships
26/07/2021 Duración: 24minSometimes our relationships can tend to get a little shallow. Specifically I notice my relationship with God, with myself, and with others can all struggle at times. That's because relationships are never a 'one and done' situation — they require consistent nourishment if they are to thrive and continue to deepen in intimacy. Today's we'll chat about four things we can do to keep connected and moving forward in our relationships.
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#160 Being Single and Being Lonely
19/07/2021 Duración: 26minJust because you're single doesn't mean you have to be lonely. Lonely is a feeling caused by our thoughts, when we learn to be more intentional about our thoughts, we will be more fulfilled and happy with where we are, single or not. What thoughts are holding you back and which ones with move you forward? Let's chat about it.
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#159 When Your Brain Lies To You
12/07/2021 Duración: 31minThe first time we realize that our brain consistently lies to us, it can seem a little strange. I think we have this underlying belief that our brain processes and figures things out and always tells the truth. But it doesn't. And generally the lies it tells don't serve us very well and move us into a better version of ourselves. Usually the keep us stuck in a place we don't want to be. Today we'll chat about how to figure out when your brain is lying and what to day about it.
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#158 Sometimes Dysfunction Is Easier
05/07/2021 Duración: 31minAll of us engage in dysfunctional behavior, unhealthy patterns of behavior that create disconnection. Sometimes we're completely unaware of the dysfunction, but other times we intentionally choose to look away and not see it because it can be so uncomfortable. Only when we are willing to step in and take a closer look, engage with the dysfunction, and move into healing it can we create the connections and the relationships we desire.
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#157 Friend-Zoning Your Adult Children
28/06/2021 Duración: 30minOne of the toughest things about being a parent of adult children is letting go of the desire to continue to parent them. We have been so used to having expectations of how we want them to behave and what we want them to do, that letting go of that can be difficult. But once they're adults, it's time to friend-zone them and step away from parenting them. Let's talk about how to do that.
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#156 The Benefits of Being Wrong
21/06/2021 Duración: 21minSome of us can have strong physical and emotional reactions to being wrong, and it can make us very resistant to the experience. But learning to look for and embrace the experience of being wrong can have some amazing benefits to us. When we learn to step into the more humble space of understanding where we are wrong, we can step into a stronger and happier version of ourselves.
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#155 How To Forgive Anyone
14/06/2021 Duración: 28minForgiving can sometimes be so difficult. When we feel we have been severely wronged, letting go of the pain and the anger and the resentment can seem overwhelming. And sometimes, we don't even know where to start with moving into forgiveness. Today we are going to talk about how to do just that. How to forgive anyone. It may seem a pretty large task, but it is possible.
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#154 Rethinking Kindness
07/06/2021 Duración: 27minKindness has so often been associated with acts - Acts of Kindness. What if we were to back this up a bit and start with Thoughts of Kindness and see the difference it would make in how we, and the recipients of our kindness, felt? Focusing on our thoughts rather than our acts will create a completely different experience.
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#153 The Manual
31/05/2021 Duración: 33minAll of us tend to have manuals for how we believe other people should behave. What we find, is that our expectations for them are a way to try to control their behavior so that we can feel better. When we seek to control other people's behavior, it never turns out very well. They feel manipulated and we feel horrible because they're not doing what we think they should and then we're angry or frustrated on top of it. It's time to figure this one out!
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#152 Victim or Hero?
24/05/2021 Duración: 37minEvery experience we have in our lives gets turned into a story in our brain. And in our story, we generally become either the hero or the victim (and maybe sometimes the villain!) When we choose to become the victim, we feel disempowered and experience little to no growth, or may even decline a bit. And it's so easy and can feel so good to be the victim! When we choose to become the hero, we are empowered and step into a space of growth that can be amazing. Let's chat today about how to become your own hero of your story.
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#151 Connection
17/05/2021 Duración: 28minConnection with other people is something we were created to desire. And yet, sometimes we feel as though we are struggling to connect with those people who matter the most to us - our spouses or significant other, our children, siblings, friends, and even ourselves. What creates true connection and how can we step into more of it? Let's talk about it!
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#150 Living In Possibility
10/05/2021 Duración: 29minPossibility. A word filled with hope for what is to come. Dreaming of an amazing future of fulfillment and contribution. And yet, somewhere along the way, many of us have forgotten about our possibility. We've entered into middle-age having focused on other people's possibility, and lost touch with our own. Let's remedy that, shall we? We still have decades of possibility ahead of us!
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#149 The Importance of Discomfort
03/05/2021 Duración: 18minWhy would we want to allow ourselves to feel uncomfortable emotions? Because discomfort is the price we pay for growth and progression. When we avoid uncomfortable emotions, we are keeping ourselves stuck, and nobody I know likes being stuck!
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#148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships
26/04/2021 Duración: 20minSometimes in our closest relationships, it can be very easy to hold a grudge rather than extend grace. But to truly develop the connection that we desire in our relationships, it is imperative that we learn to forgive others and embrace their humanity. Only with grace will we create the deep, intimate connections that we desire.