Bedtalks

Let's face it, dating can be a struggle. And this struggle can persist even for those of you in committed relationships. The pandemic hasn't made it easier. But, I've brought in extra help to help you figure it all out. Meet Dr. Abby Lev. Dr. Lev is a psychotherapist, author, coach, workshop facilitator, and consultant to individuals and companies. She is passionate about helping people uncover the core beliefs and emotional obstacles. During this interview we discuss practical dating tips, the difference between your wants versus needs, why you should stay true to who you are even if it rocks the boat at the beginning of the relationship. We also help you figure out how to differentiate between superficial and core values. Dr. Lev delves into what makes a relationship more sturdy and solid versus one that is likely to fall apart. In listening to this interview, you will come away surprised, informed, and with more self-awareness of what constitutes a successful relationship. Listen in and let me know what yo

K & I have been meeting and interviewing some amazing people. Our goal remains to bring you valuable and useful content. We were beyond thrilled when Melissa Rivers agreed to be a guest on our show. Melissa Rivers is famously known for being a co-host of Fashion Police and the daughter of the legendary comedian, Joan Rivers. While Melissa's mom Joan Rivers set the stage for many of the comedians we see today - Lily Singh, Leslie Jones, Chelsea Handler, among many others. Melissa is no shrinking violet. She is extremely accomplished in her own right. Melissa Rivers has many accolades and accomplishments. Melissa is an award-winning fashion and pop-culture host, a reality-TV star, an actress, and an executive producer. She is currently the host of the booming podcast, Group Text With Melissa Rivers and co-creator and executive producer of web sensation “Love Quarantine Style.” A New York Times bestselling author of multiple books, an accomplished lecturer, a dedicated and vocal philanthropist and advocate

Have you ever wondered why it seems as though you attract a certain type of person?  Do you suffer from relationship fatigue?  Are you tired and frustrated with the same repeated themes playing out in your relationships? It’s an often overlooked part of the relationship equation. We don't often see the connective pieces until we focus on dealing with what creates them.  But, if missed, it can lead to constant relationship frustration and failure. We’ve brought in a special expert and guest to have this discussion and help you figure it out. Listen in as K and I speak with a Relationship Expert, Robert Dunn, of the Orion Group Podcast. And please remember to subscribe to future episodes of the Bedtalks podcasts on the Anchor App, iTunes, Google Podcasts, and Spotify. Until next time XoXo

K and I had the pleasure of interviewing Naysha Sonet. Naysha is from the beautiful and #3 ranked country of happiness, Norway. However, even though Naysha lives in one of the happiest countries, she didn't always feel happy with herself. After a bad break-up, she had to learn how to find someone she had lost as a result of the break-up, herself. We crossed paths as I followed Naysha's personal journey and transformation via self-love. She has insight and wisdom that belies her age. I was impressed and continue to be impressed to watch her journey, how she helps others and is building space for others to recognize their own personal value. Self-love is a positive phrase and is used often. But, during this interview, we take it a step deeper analyzing and dealing with the often uncomfortable pieces of self-love. Listen in and learn more as K, Naysa, and I navigate this conversation together. And please remember to tune into future episodes of Bedtalks on the Anchor App, iTunes, Google Podcasts, and Spotify. Un

According to the NCADV organization, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by their intimate partner in the United States. During one year, this equates to more than 10 million women and men who suffer abuse from their partner. 33% of women and almost 10% of men suffer some form of physical abuse. 72% of all murder-suicides involve an intimate partner and 94% of these victims murdered are female. Physical and emotional abuse is prevalent making it difficult for people to leave an abusive relationship. - Source of statistics NCADV.org Domestic abuse can leave long-lasting physical and emotional scars. But, there is a way out. Mannette Morgan, a survivor of domestic abuse, helps women find their path to recovery. Mannette shares her personal story of domestic abuse and how she created a path to not only survive, but thrive! She has helped many other women to leave abusive relationships and understands the challenges and fears associated with abuse. Listen in as K and I speak with Mannette and learn

Nikki, Ben, Ken, and Me continue our discussion in this  Bedtalks Podcast: Our Happy Divorce Part 3 - A Couple's Unique Approach to Divorce. Divorce isn't easy. When two people make this decision, the feelings are intensified because it's natural to want to cut off your contact and interactions with one another. And when you add kids to the mix, it can make the break-up even more complicated. Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond wanted to handle their divorce differently. And they admit, in the beginning, it wasn't easy. But they wanted to uncouple in a way that wouldn't be disruptive and emotionally damaging in the long-term to their son Asher. Hence what started their journey of, "Our Happy Divorce." It's a powerful story of two parents who decided to navigate ending their marriage and co-parenting in a way that was healthy for their son and one another. Listen in to Part 2 of a 3 part series where we learn from Nikki and Ben about the ways they managed to co-exist following their divorce, co-parent,

Nikki, Ben, Ken, and Me continue our discussion in this  Bedtalks Podcast: Our Happy Divorce Part 2 - A Couple's Unique Approach to Divorce. Divorce isn't easy. When two people make this decision, the feelings are intensified because it's natural to want to cut off your contact and interactions with one another. And when you add kids to the mix, it can make the break-up even more complicated. Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond wanted to handle their divorce differently. And they admit, in the beginning, it wasn't easy. But they wanted to uncouple in a way that wouldn't be disruptive and emotionally damaging in the long-term to their son Asher. Hence what started their journey of, "Our Happy Divorce." It's a powerful story of two parents who decided to navigate ending their marriage and co-parenting in a way that was healthy for their son and one another. Listen in to Part 2 of a 3 part series where we learn from Nikki and Ben about the ways they managed to co-exist following their divorce, co-parent,

If you are divorced, considering divorce and wondering how to navigate your relationship with your ex and still be good parents to your children this show is for you. Divorce is messy. And when you think about divorce, it usually conjures up lots of negative feelings and emotions.  Most divorces end in an acrimonious way. It's normal to experience difficulties with one another when a divorce ends and this can be further complicated by shared custody agreements and splitting finances.  But, Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond wanted to handle their divorce differently. At first, it wasn't easy, but they wanted to uncouple in a way that wouldn't be disruptive and emotionally damaging in the long-term to their son Asher. Hence what started their journey of, "Our Happy Divorce." It's a powerful story of two parents who decided to navigate ending their marriage and co-parenting in a way that was healthy for their son and one another. Listen in to Part 1 of a 3 part series where we learn from Nikki and

We are living in a time where we are being forced to take a time-out, be reflective, and re-prioritize what we thought might have the most important. During this time K and I think it's important to inspire us to be aware of the current events which are happening and to also use this time to bring on guests and discuss topics that will encourage you to your greater purpose. Honestly, things are scary now and the events unfolding are unprecedented. However, they also present a unique time to re-evaluate, re-focus and re-energize. Out of scarcity and turmoil, often comes great ingenuity. Please listen in as K and I interview Karyn Pettigrew CEO and Founder of Zoe Goes and Beyond Blind Spots - Karyn has a special story that will resonate with you. She discusses how she learned to lean into her inner voice and intuition as she shifted from Corporate life into Entrepreneurship. Her company Zoe Goes was designed to create sustainable fashion with high-quality clothes that are easy to wear. It's fashionable wear for

COVID-19 is top of mind for many of us and your feelings about it have likely intensified over the last several weeks.  While we don't want to add to creating additional anxiety around what is happening, we thought it would be a good time to think about ways to look at your relationship and do things that can help to nurture it. Like COVID-19, there will always be outside, external forces that we can't control that will come along that will challenge the fabric and framework of your relationship. It's important to find ways to use factors outside of your relationship to keep it nourished, thriving, and healthy. Listen in and let us know what you think. And please subscribe to future episodes of Bedtalks on the Anchor App, iTunes, Google Podcasts and Spotify. Until next time, XoXo.

Self-love and Superficial Love can easily be commingled. But, there is a clear difference between the two. Listen in as K and I break down the difference and share our perspective on why one holds a higher value than the other. We discuss why self-love may not be what you have been taught to believe.

It’s not uncommon for two people to settle into a relationship once they’ve been together for a long time. How do you stay engaged and committed with your significant other when this happens? K and I delve into this topic on this episode of Bedtalks. Listen in and let us know what you think.

Entrepreneurship can add another layer to a relationship. The demands of running a business and being responsible for bringing in revenue for your business and employees can add additional pressure when your workday doesn't end like the usual 9-5 job role.  However, entrepreneurship has its rewards too. Being enmeshed in doing something in which you are passionate, or being able to create your legacy with your trademark on your business endeavors can't be understated or underrated. There is pride in establishing and forging your pathway independently. It takes lots of grit, determination, and doggedness, but we've seen over and over again with innovative businesses that it's possible.  Fred and Notoya, the founders of MediaTakeout, the urban version of TMZ have a unique story. They ran various businesses in the past and used these learnings to build additional success by carving out a voice for people of color in the entertainment space. They have worked hard to grow their business empire while also building

Remember the movie, “The Matrix?” That movie has a lot in common with relationships. Are you willing to stay in the comfort zone regarding your relationship or are you willing to go down the rabbit hole? Listen in as we explore this topic further.

Love and loyalty each play a part in your relationship with your spouse or significant other. But, what happens when one of the two is lost in a relationship? K and I delve into this topic on our newest episode of Bedtalks. Tune in and share your thoughts with us on the topic.

There is a lot of talk of leaving a legacy. And oftentimes when we think of a legacy, we think of leaving a financial one. But, legacy can and does mean more. What about your relationship legacy? What values do you want to impart to your family? Listen in as K and I discuss why this one is often missed, but one of the most important.

Hey, Y'all! Welcome back to a new episode of Bedtalks. We've been on a bit of a hiatus, but we are back! The holidays are upon us. And this time of year can bring about many feelings for a myriad of reasons. It can be a difficult time of the year to navigate whether you are single or in a relationship. Feelings of loneliness, feeling overextended by your many responsibilities, and figuring out how to get in quality time with one another if you are in a relationship are some of the more common challenges. Listen in as K and I discuss some tips we’ve found that are helpful to make sure you make the most of the upcoming holidays. Tune in and also feel free to share with us what you do to make the most of the holidays! Until next time, XoXo

We talked about a man’s mission and how it effects his relationship and we thought it was equally important to talk about a woman’s mission and how it effects her relationship. Listen in as we share how a woman approaches her mission as well as how life experiences can shift her mission.

People commonly ask me specific relationship questions and K & I thought it would fun to talk about some of the more common topics on your mind on this episode of Bedtalks. This show is a milestone for us. It's our 25th Podcast Show!  We have so much fun doing this show and started the show because we would have the best discussions about our relationship in the wee hours of the night or in the early mornings, hence the title, "Bedtalks."  We try to keep the show light-hearted, but we delve into some deep topics and it's been a fun ride for us. Thank you for your support and for continuing to let us know what is on your minds. We're committed to helping to empower everyone to have a healthy relationship. It's the only one worth having! Until next time, XoXo

A man has three missions and this can factor heavily into his relationship with you. Listen in as K and I discuss how your response to your man’s mission can either strengthen or detour your relationship.