Say What?

Monogamy sounds good in theory and may even be good for some people in practice. However, there are increasing numbers of people who choose not to be monogamous. There are so many sexstyle choices, why limit yourself to monogamy? Open relationships appear to be on the rise, with partners giving each other permission to have sex with someone else. They're swinging and partner swapping all over the place. And polyamory is a term that more people are becoming familiar with. Is your ability to love limited to only one person? Join us this Tuesday as we explore the possibilities of sexual alternatives to monogamy with special guests S-Dot from The Booty Call Show and Robyn Trask from http://www.lovemore.com

Infidelity seems to be the center of attention. It’s everywhere!!!! It’s on the internet, in magazines, on the news, in TV programs and part of day to day conversations with friends, family and colleagues. Where is all of the chatter about monogamy? After all, rumor has it that society supports and values monogamy. If that’s the case, why don’t we hear more about the benefits of monogamy? Is there something wrong with those of us who choose a monogamous lifestyle? Are there really any benefits to monogamy? How about downsides? Is it truly possible to maintain a long term mutually monogamous relationship?

The "other woman". She knows that her man is not really hers, but she's okay with it, prefers it, and loses no sleep over it....but is this really true? What is it that makes a woman comfortable with this position, and how do men who deal with her really feel about who and what she is?

Is explicit material relegated to the dark quiet rooms of homes across the country where men lurk in silence on their laptops and desktops? Is it relegated to magazines in brown wrappers or back alleys? Interestingly, female consumers of explicit material are increasing in number. So...for those who are watching explicit material, who are they, what are they looking for, and how is it affecting their relationships?

We hear it ALL of the time. Women don't want "nice guys", they don't want "good men". They leave the "good guys" in the "friend zone" and choose the bad boys to have relationships with. Is this, in fact, the case? If so, is there something about the "nice guys" that make them finish last? Let's talk about it!

You're having sex on the first night? You're waiting for marriage? You're on Steve Harvey's 90 day rule?!How soon is too soon?Join the Say What? Crew to discuss the perfect timing for sex.Is it the first date? The first year? Listen as hosts LaTricia, Serena and Nathan discuss and debate the right time for your first time.

Our incredibly lively discussion of the independent woman will be followed with the man's question of whether or not he can "wear the pants" in the relationship. Is he waiting for her to step out of them? Shouldn't he have a pair of his own?

The independent woman, feared, hated, respected...misunderstood. What does she want/need? What is she independent of? How does she view herself? How does the world view her? Who, exactly, is the independent woman?

Do we allow too much input from friends and fam in our intimate relationships? Sure, we all need a sounding board from time to time, but are we sharing too much? And to make matters worse, are those with whom we share then giving us more input than is necessary? Do we find that we are saying and doing what others tell us to in our relationships that we would not typically do ourselves? Are we betraying our partners with what and how much we share? Are other people intervening in our conflicts, even to the point of speaking on our behalf? Are there more than two people in your relationship?

Tricks and toys, all the joys.....of sex. Where? How? When? Are you adventurous, or shy? Do you experiment, or do you prefer the comfort of the good old fashioned basics? How spicy is too spicy? Positions, places, you name it, we want to talk about it. We are all grown ups, aren't we? Ok then, let's talk about sex.